5 Simple But Powerful Ways To Make Him Feel Loved

 

5 Simple But Powerful Ways To Make Him Feel Loved

By Hannah Jackson
Author of Make Any Man Love You 

“One word
Frees us of all the weight and pain of life:
That word is love.”
― Sophocles

Whether you’ve met someone new, or you’ve been in a relationship for some time now, it’s important to keep your connection strong.

As the months and years go by, it's normal for the passion to wind down a bit. But even as that happens, some habits will keep you close to your guy.

Life can get crazy, and a bunch of other things may occupy you and your partner’s time, so that can get in the way sometimes. The way you express "how much I love you", "I love you guy" or "I love you man meme" meanings are very important and you should keep do it in various different ways.

But if you can keep his love and attention on you even as you're going through a busy week, that will keep you going for a long time to come.

As much as we'd like to have a one-size-fits-all secret formula for staying happy together, it's really a combination of different things put together.

You’ll need to make the time, effort and loving patience for your relationship to flourish.

But it’s not as complicated or hard as some people think. It’s more about doing the small stuff every day.

On their own, these things might not seem like much until they’ve stacked up over time.

And when you take step back see what you’ve put into the relationship, you’ll be glad you started as early as now.

To get your man to appreciate the full force of your love – and get him to reciprocate – here are 5 Everyday Habits to Make Your Man Fall Deeper In Love With You:

#1: Be the Yin to His Yang

If you're a woman looking for a man, you'll need your femininity to appeal to his masculinity.

In a relationship, there needs to be a balance of both energies. So what you bring to the table matters to both of you.

He needs your feminine essence to complement his masculine side, but it's not about catering to his ego.

Instead, you want to be the woman in his life that knows where he's coming from. You can do that by acknowledging the "manly" aspects of his personality and appreciating them.

Guys love nothing more than being able to look out for his loved ones, and they get an immense amount of satisfaction out of it.

Your guy also feels at his most masculine when he can face a problem head-on and tackle a massive task with his force of will.

And I'm not saying you can't be those things either, but in a relationship, a man wants the privilege to be able to do those things for you.

If you can give him props for that, and recognize his role in your shared connection, he'll be eternally grateful.

Let him be that guy for you by sending words of appreciation and kindness his way.

When he's able to express his masculinity in the relationship, he'll feel like the Superman to your Lois Lane.

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#2: Take Care of Him

Showing your softer, more vulnerable side to your guy isn't weakness. It's about giving him the gift of your nurturing care - and choosing to do so.

A lot of women underestimate the power of acts of kindness in their relationship. But when a guy knows that he's getting personal attention from the special person in his life, he'll feel loved.

As Bob Marley once sang, "You make me feel like sweepstake winner!"

Not only that, your gentle, healing energy recharges his batteries. He can go back to being his most masculine self again and take on the world.

Being together is a matter of give and take, so trust me, he'll want to give back as good as he gets. Doing the "little" things might not seem like much in the big picture, but they add up.

And it will make the connection between you that much stronger. Here are some ways you can start doing that:

- Praise him within earshot of family, friends, and colleagues

- Make him his favorite beverage, or do a Starbucks run and surprise him at work (if you think he's cool with that)

- Gently encourage him to share his feelings after he's had a rough day. Listen to him and let him explore his feelings.

- Send him a couple of texts or messages (less is more, so don't bombard him) every day. It can be anything that makes him feel special, like sending him a silly joke, a quick but heartfelt note, or even a racy message if he seems game for that. A little female attention goes a long way!

- Give him your full attention when you're hanging out together - put away your phone for a while and let him feel your full presence

- Plan a surprise date for him. Do something together that you know he'll genuinely like. Guys love it when they can kick back once in a while and let their partner do the planning or decision-making.

#3: Get His Motor Running

Passion and physical intimacy are the glue of a romantic relationship. Without it, you may as well be platonic friends.

So you need to find small ways you can turn him on in your day-to-day lives. When you make a move on him, it doesn’t have to be overtly sexual – not all the time, at least.

Save the big stuff for when it really counts (i.e., when you’re behind closed doors). During your daily routine, remind him that you’re his lady, and he’s the hottest guy you’ve ever laid eyes on.

Your man will never tell you, but he wants to be a little objectified from time to time.

He wants to know you still turn him on and want to take advantage of him as soon as you have a moment alone with him.

Subtlety is key. Implying it is better than spelling it out.

Try the following on him:

• Anything that draws attention to your figure will get his attention. Next time you’re trying to put something on, ask him to zip you up. It seems casual on the surface, but he’ll know what’s going on when he gets a little glimpse of you.
• Send him a message along the lines of, “Hey honey, hope you’re doing ok. Listen, I’m trying on some swimsuits at the store. Could you tell me which one looks better on me?”
• Here's another one: "Almost finished with my night out with the girls. Feeling a little tipsy. Gosh, hope no one takes advantage of me when I get home later."
• Complement his physicality. Try telling him things like, “You look good enough to eat in that suit,” “I get a little thirsty watching you fix the car,” or “You’re so strong.”

Men love being teased and the slow burn of anticipation.

Make it fun game by leaving a breadcrumb trail for your man to follow. Do it right, and he’ll be more than eager to march to your beat.

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#4: Take Care of Yourself

It might sound counterintuitive to focus on yourself to make your man feel loved. However, this actually makes sense in the bigger scheme of things.

You see, men don’t like to be smothered. Yes, your guy wants your love and appreciation, but not to the point where you’re forgetting your own needs in the equation.

Your man doesn't know it, but he needs you also to focus your energy outside the relationship.

In the back of his mind, he has to know that you’re also doing things that make YOU happy which doesn’t involve him.

Otherwise, he’ll feel like it’s all on him to give you that sense of fulfillment in life. That’s not a healthy dynamic to have.

By maintaining your own identity and sense of independence, it’s a reassurance for him that you’ve got it together.

And this actually makes him more drawn to you.

It works the same way for him. He also needs to provide himself with that fulfillment so he can be a whole person - while being in a relationship with you.

No matter how amazing your guy is, having him in your life isn’t an excuse to let everything else fall to the wayside. BALANCE is crucial, so taking care of the following will make your relationship stable:

• Your health, fitness and overall mental and physical well-being
• Your social life
• Your career
• Your other hobbies and things you’re passionate about
• Any projects you’re involved in (i.e., volunteering at a non-profit, etc.)

And the great thing about going off the radar for a while and doing your own thing is that he’ll MISS you.

Guys have a secret fear of losing you. Funny enough, this is the very thing that makes your man pursue you even harder.

If he knows you’re out there, creating value in the world, that makes you valuable in his eyes.

And when he knows what he stands to lose, he’ll never think of taking you for granted.

So being unavailable from time to time creates some healthy tension. He’ll be enthusiastic about the “chase” and try to win you over again and again.

#5: Let Him Do His Thing

Now it’s time to talk about his independence. As happy as a guy is in his relationship, he still needs to feel a sense of freedom.

Even if he’s married, has kids, a job and a bunch of other responsibilities…

…a guy wants to know that he can pursue things related to his personal development.

That doesn’t mean he’s free to flirt with other women or go on a week-long sabbatical. He just needs to carve out a reasonable amount of time to explore his interests.

Like you, he’s got activities, hobbies and other things that he’s passionate about – not to mention a circle of friends that go with these.

Aside from that, there might be times when he's simply feeling beat from the daily grind and needs to decompress.

Or he might be busy tackling a colossal task that he wants to get off his plate so he can breathe easy.

Most guys are wired to have a laser-like focus on a project, and they’re not as good as multitasking as women.

So, he might seem a little withdrawn - and for a lack of a better word, INTENSE – when he's in this "get it done" mode.

In any case, it’s normal to feel worried because it feels like he’s pulling away and emotionally unavailable.

And I know that sometimes, men can seem aloof and even insensitive. And it makes you want to lock him down more and make sure he doesn’t get away.

But that can backfire and make him want to retreat further - especially when he feels a needy or desperate vibe from his partner.

However, you need to understand that this is part of a guy’s process when he’s got a lot of stuff to deal with. As his partner, you can give him the space he needs to crush whatever big goal he’s working on.

Gently reassure him that you’re in his corner while he’s battling it out. Meanwhile, you can focus on yourself (see #4) and get your own needs taken care of.

Once he comes out of his cave, he’ll thank you for being so supportive during that time.

More importantly, your guy will be able to focus all his energy back on you again.

A lot of women find it tricky to walk that tightrope between not loving their man enough, which makes him feel neglected…

… and being possessive or going overboard – which pushes him away.

The best way to avoid getting trapped in that situation is by knowing what makes a guy DEEPLY ATTACHED to his partner.

Every man has a trigger in his mind - once you know how to activate it, he’ll feel like you’re the only woman who truly understands him.

This is the signal that tells him you’re The One. That makes him want to pour all his love and attention into you - on a level you haven’t seen before.

You won’t have to worry about where you stand with him. He’ll let you know in no uncertain terms how much he loves you…

…starting today, and every day after that.

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8 Differences Between True Love and Fake Love

 

By Slade Shaw

Author of Why Men Pull Away 

 

 “If you love someone but rarely make yourself available to him or her, that is not true love.”

-Thich Nhat Hanh

Guys don’t always say what they mean, whether it’s unintentional or not.

Sometimes, it’s a case of miscommunication where a man has trouble expressing himself, and you get the wrong message.

For instance, he could be fresh out of a relationship and didn’t know what he was getting into when started going out with you.

He might have thought at first that he was ready to commit, but somewhere down the line he realized that he couldn’t give you what you wanted.

And as he’s working out his feelings, he’ll give you what’s usually known as “mixed signals”.

Then there are times when he knows exactly what he wants, and will do anything to get it…

…even if it means lying to your face.

He’ll charm you into bed, then split the scene once he’s gotten what he wanted.

Either way, it’s NOT the kind of love you’re after.

So how do you know if he’s not feeling “all that” about being with you, whatever reason it may be?

And how do you spot signs of true love so you don’t waste your time on the WRONG guy?

Personally, I don’t believe in any of that mixed signals business. No matter what he says, it’s always his actions and behavior that tell the real story.

Witt that, here are the 8 biggest signs to help you know whether he feels a deep, heartfelt love for you…

…or he’s just taking you for a ride.

Bear in mind that you can spot these telltale clues in any guy, regardless of how long you’ve known him. These traits manifest on a deeper level for long-term relationships, and you’ll see early indications for a newer guy.

At any rate, you’d best find out as soon as possible – here we go…

 

Sign of True Love #1: You’re connected to him

 

You might hear some couples talking about the strong connection they have. They seem to know what the other is thinking, or even finish each other’s sentences.

It’s borderline psychic, and they swear there’s something supernatural going on.

But the real reason couples like them are so in tune is because they pay attention to each other.

There’s nothing complicated about it – they basically cultivate the habit of responding when one of them is trying to make a connection.

For example, you might say to your partner while you’re walking down the street, “Hey honey, check out that Prius with the Hello Kitty decals…I can’t decide if it’s cute or trashy!”

If he just ignores you or shrugs with an apathetic, “Hmm”, then the connection between you might not be as strong as you think.

But if he says something like, “Yeah, definitely trashy… that car’s perfect for you!” with a cheeky grin, then it means he’s really paying attention to you.

And it’s not just about pointing out something interesting to your partner. It can be more subtle, like bringing up a story and seeing how the other reacts, getting a quick opinion on your outfit, or asking for help with the laundry.

These are “small” ways couples try to connect with each other, and it takes practice for couples to get into this groove. You’ll see those who’ve been together for some time are naturally good at this.

On the other hand, a superficial kind of love doesn’t make the effort to make these little connections.

If a guy continuously brushes off your attempts to connect (and not because he just happens to be having a bad day), then he might not be that into the relationship as you think.

Sign of True Love #2: It’s all about clarity

 

When a guy isn’t really in love, it’s not really important to him whether he’s sending a clear message or not.

What do I mean by this?

Well for starters, he has the habit of letting you know at the last minute if he can’t make it or he’s running late.

And when you’re not together, it usually feels like he’s gone off the grid.

You don’t hear from him for long stretches of time, and he won’t bother to let you know what’s going on with him.

Even if he seems like the most charming, fun and sweet guy when you are together - especially in bed…

…he probably isn’t that committed if his actions outside of that are ambiguous.

True love is the opposite of that, which means he’ll leave no room for you to wonder if he’s going to flake out on you or not.

He’s going to make sure that the way he communicates with you is absolutely clear and “on the level”.

 

True Love Sign #3: He actually cares about being TOGETHER

 

With a relationship purely based on lust, there’s little to no effort involved when it comes to doing things that bring a couple closer.

There’s that “I’ll see you when I see you” kind of vibe, and you don’t feel any sort of GROWTH between you.

A man who’s in love is going to make sure he gets to spend time with you, even if he has to rearrange his whole schedule.

And it’s a sure sign he’s super serious if these are ritual type of activities, and not just getting busy between the sheets.

When a guy’s creating shared experiences, he’s also interested in forming a richer, DEEPER connection with you.

It’s not always about going on a weekend getaway or bungee jumping…

…but rather smaller things like huddling together for a weekend Netflix marathon or a Wednesday brunch.

Real love isn’t always focused on chasing the “high” that comes with romance, but also creating a stable routine that forms the foundation of your relationship.

 

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True Love Sign #4: He’s not afraid to push your limits

 

Couples who truly care for each other aren’t worried about being likeable or agreeable all the time.

If they have a difference of opinion, they can handle the fact that they don’t see eye-to-eye on it - especially when it comes to “dealbreaker” kind of topics.

More importantly, they can give their HONEST thoughts on the matter, even if it’s the polar opposite of what the other person believes.

Someone who’s more interested in a one-shot kind of deal (rather than being in it for the long run) isn’t going to risk rocking the boat.

He’ll be in politician mode, saying and doing everything to keep the good times rolling.

He’s thinking, “What’s the point of being honest about it if it’s going to piss her off?”

But a man in love isn’t as worried about the ups and downs, or the disagreements…

…because he’s more interested in knowing the REAL you…

…even if it means having to iron out the kinks.

He knows it’s a messy process, but he doesn’t mind.

Amanda, a friend of mine was telling me about her husband, Donnie:

“You know, at first I thought he was kind of a jerk for being so straight up with me. But he always respected me even though we disagreed on something.”

Then she added, “And if I messed up in some way, he called me out on it without making me feel bad. I’d get mad at Donnie before, but now I respect him for not just telling me what I wanted to hear, but what I needed to.”

 

True Love Sign #5: He meets you halfway…or MORE than that

 

We all know relationships are about give and take, but a guy in love is way more interested in GIVING than taking.

And when he gives, you’re 100% sure there’s no strings attached. He does it because he wants to, and it doesn’t matter how much he gets back in return.

Real love doesn’t keep score, so your guy isn’t going to bring up the time he waited half an hour because you had a last-minute emergency at work, or that he had to cancel poker night with the guys to see you.

Superficial relationships usually have self-serving agendas (i.e. sex, money, bragging rights).

When a guy is more concerned about having the favor returned, you’ll feel it …

…even if he doesn’t say something like, “I did this for you, now what are you going to do for me?”

Furthermore, a guy who isn’t really in love tends to be more selfish about his preferences.

He’ll likely insist on the stuff he likes rather than asking what you want.

It could be small stuff like where to eat, which movie to watch, or if you prefer the window or aisle seat on the plane.

It could also be things on a larger scale, like deciding where the relationship’s headed.

Fickle (a.k.a. Fake) love doesn’t really do well with making room for compromise, and couples are likely to split over this.

 

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True Love Sign #6: Your guy has “tunnel vision”

 

You can tell a guy’s in love with you if he’s trying to imply that you’re “different” from other women.

He’ll make you feel special - it’s as if you’re the only one that exists in his world.

Men interested in a serious, committed relationship are looking for that one girl who stands above the rest.

And if he thinks you’re The One, he WILL drop some hints to let you know.

Chances are he’ll be indirect about it because men often have trouble expressing themselves emotionally.

Feelings aren’t as familiar territory to them as it is for women (although there are exceptions of course).

That’s why it’s a bit of a challenge for him to untangle something as complex as LOVE.

So he’ll try to let you know by saying something along the lines of “You’re not like other women” or “I’ve never met anyone like you.”

Someone who doesn’t feel as strongly for you won’t ever approach this topic.

That’s because he’s not as focused - or I might even say “obsessed” – with you.

 

True Love Sign #7: He’s always there for you  

 

Most women have a little trouble figuring this one out.

But if you pay attention to his actions, there may be clues that he’s not just in it for the physical intimacy.

If he’s constantly doing big AND small stuff for you, it’s his way of letting you know about this true feelings.

A lot of guys are more of doers than tellers when it comes to love.

Also, chances are it’s the real deal if he’s taking note of the small details about you and putting them to good use later on.

Maybe he knows how much you’re into badly made horror movies, for instance.

Then he’ll surprise you with a couple of tickets for a midnight screening of that cult classic you were telling him about the other week.

All this means your happiness is important to him…

…and any guy worth being with doesn’t feel 100% like a man if he’s not doing enough to take care of you.

A guy who doesn’t care, won’t bother remembering those vital pieces of information. And he won’t lift a finger to make you happy unless it benefits him in some way.

True Love Sign #8: He’s part of your life – and not just the fun parts

Another way to tell he’s in love with you if he’s going out of his way to be part of your world.

You might notice him trying to find out what you love doing, then tag along even though he’s not into it himself.

He’ll also be more than happy to meet the other people in your life because he wants to know you better.

Being with your friends and seeing you in action helps him understand what makes you tick.

A guy who’s only interested in doing the deed won’t be interested at all in seeing this other side of you.

It doesn’t serve him in any way, and he doesn’t need to take the relationship past sleeping with you.

Fake love crumbles when things get tough. He won’t muster the energy to get to know your passions and interests, and doesn’t care about the people important to you.

Doing this takes time and effort. Whether or not he goes through this trouble is the real yardstick of his feelings for you.

If he’s willing to make sacrifices that he could have very well avoided…

…and he doesn’t stop trying even when things aren’t always great between you…

…then you’d better hold on to him tight.

This points to the fact that he’s tenacious in the face of adversity, which is more than I can say for the Wham-Bam-Thank-You-Ma’am kind of guys out there.

Whether you’ve just been seeing a guy, or you’ve known him for a long time, it’s never a good sign if it just seems like he’s phoning it in.

Maybe he used to show the signs that he’s got a solid commitment to you, but now you’re not so sure about your future with him.

It’s often hard to pinpoint exactly why men pull away all of a sudden.

But you don’t have to panic if your relationship’s going through this phase. There is a way to overcome the wall that men put up when they don’t feel that fire anymore.

What you need to do is understand how men think and get a good grasp of what makes them leave. 

This video explains how to get around the problem of his emotional unavailability, and to make sure he doesn’t ever think of leaving. 

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