5 Simple But Powerful Ways To Make Him Feel Loved

 

5 Simple But Powerful Ways To Make Him Feel Loved

By Hannah Jackson
Author of Make Any Man Love You 

“One word
Frees us of all the weight and pain of life:
That word is love.”
― Sophocles

Whether you’ve met someone new, or you’ve been in a relationship for some time now, it’s important to keep your connection strong.

As the months and years go by, it's normal for the passion to wind down a bit. But even as that happens, some habits will keep you close to your guy.

Life can get crazy, and a bunch of other things may occupy you and your partner’s time, so that can get in the way sometimes. The way you express "how much I love you", "I love you guy" or "I love you man meme" meanings are very important and you should keep do it in various different ways.

But if you can keep his love and attention on you even as you're going through a busy week, that will keep you going for a long time to come.

As much as we'd like to have a one-size-fits-all secret formula for staying happy together, it's really a combination of different things put together.

You’ll need to make the time, effort and loving patience for your relationship to flourish.

But it’s not as complicated or hard as some people think. It’s more about doing the small stuff every day.

On their own, these things might not seem like much until they’ve stacked up over time.

And when you take step back see what you’ve put into the relationship, you’ll be glad you started as early as now.

To get your man to appreciate the full force of your love – and get him to reciprocate – here are 5 Everyday Habits to Make Your Man Fall Deeper In Love With You:

#1: Be the Yin to His Yang

If you're a woman looking for a man, you'll need your femininity to appeal to his masculinity.

In a relationship, there needs to be a balance of both energies. So what you bring to the table matters to both of you.

He needs your feminine essence to complement his masculine side, but it's not about catering to his ego.

Instead, you want to be the woman in his life that knows where he's coming from. You can do that by acknowledging the "manly" aspects of his personality and appreciating them.

Guys love nothing more than being able to look out for his loved ones, and they get an immense amount of satisfaction out of it.

Your guy also feels at his most masculine when he can face a problem head-on and tackle a massive task with his force of will.

And I'm not saying you can't be those things either, but in a relationship, a man wants the privilege to be able to do those things for you.

If you can give him props for that, and recognize his role in your shared connection, he'll be eternally grateful.

Let him be that guy for you by sending words of appreciation and kindness his way.

When he's able to express his masculinity in the relationship, he'll feel like the Superman to your Lois Lane.

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#2: Take Care of Him

Showing your softer, more vulnerable side to your guy isn't weakness. It's about giving him the gift of your nurturing care - and choosing to do so.

A lot of women underestimate the power of acts of kindness in their relationship. But when a guy knows that he's getting personal attention from the special person in his life, he'll feel loved.

As Bob Marley once sang, "You make me feel like sweepstake winner!"

Not only that, your gentle, healing energy recharges his batteries. He can go back to being his most masculine self again and take on the world.

Being together is a matter of give and take, so trust me, he'll want to give back as good as he gets. Doing the "little" things might not seem like much in the big picture, but they add up.

And it will make the connection between you that much stronger. Here are some ways you can start doing that:

- Praise him within earshot of family, friends, and colleagues

- Make him his favorite beverage, or do a Starbucks run and surprise him at work (if you think he's cool with that)

- Gently encourage him to share his feelings after he's had a rough day. Listen to him and let him explore his feelings.

- Send him a couple of texts or messages (less is more, so don't bombard him) every day. It can be anything that makes him feel special, like sending him a silly joke, a quick but heartfelt note, or even a racy message if he seems game for that. A little female attention goes a long way!

- Give him your full attention when you're hanging out together - put away your phone for a while and let him feel your full presence

- Plan a surprise date for him. Do something together that you know he'll genuinely like. Guys love it when they can kick back once in a while and let their partner do the planning or decision-making.

#3: Get His Motor Running

Passion and physical intimacy are the glue of a romantic relationship. Without it, you may as well be platonic friends.

So you need to find small ways you can turn him on in your day-to-day lives. When you make a move on him, it doesn’t have to be overtly sexual – not all the time, at least.

Save the big stuff for when it really counts (i.e., when you’re behind closed doors). During your daily routine, remind him that you’re his lady, and he’s the hottest guy you’ve ever laid eyes on.

Your man will never tell you, but he wants to be a little objectified from time to time.

He wants to know you still turn him on and want to take advantage of him as soon as you have a moment alone with him.

Subtlety is key. Implying it is better than spelling it out.

Try the following on him:

• Anything that draws attention to your figure will get his attention. Next time you’re trying to put something on, ask him to zip you up. It seems casual on the surface, but he’ll know what’s going on when he gets a little glimpse of you.
• Send him a message along the lines of, “Hey honey, hope you’re doing ok. Listen, I’m trying on some swimsuits at the store. Could you tell me which one looks better on me?”
• Here's another one: "Almost finished with my night out with the girls. Feeling a little tipsy. Gosh, hope no one takes advantage of me when I get home later."
• Complement his physicality. Try telling him things like, “You look good enough to eat in that suit,” “I get a little thirsty watching you fix the car,” or “You’re so strong.”

Men love being teased and the slow burn of anticipation.

Make it fun game by leaving a breadcrumb trail for your man to follow. Do it right, and he’ll be more than eager to march to your beat.

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#4: Take Care of Yourself

It might sound counterintuitive to focus on yourself to make your man feel loved. However, this actually makes sense in the bigger scheme of things.

You see, men don’t like to be smothered. Yes, your guy wants your love and appreciation, but not to the point where you’re forgetting your own needs in the equation.

Your man doesn't know it, but he needs you also to focus your energy outside the relationship.

In the back of his mind, he has to know that you’re also doing things that make YOU happy which doesn’t involve him.

Otherwise, he’ll feel like it’s all on him to give you that sense of fulfillment in life. That’s not a healthy dynamic to have.

By maintaining your own identity and sense of independence, it’s a reassurance for him that you’ve got it together.

And this actually makes him more drawn to you.

It works the same way for him. He also needs to provide himself with that fulfillment so he can be a whole person - while being in a relationship with you.

No matter how amazing your guy is, having him in your life isn’t an excuse to let everything else fall to the wayside. BALANCE is crucial, so taking care of the following will make your relationship stable:

• Your health, fitness and overall mental and physical well-being
• Your social life
• Your career
• Your other hobbies and things you’re passionate about
• Any projects you’re involved in (i.e., volunteering at a non-profit, etc.)

And the great thing about going off the radar for a while and doing your own thing is that he’ll MISS you.

Guys have a secret fear of losing you. Funny enough, this is the very thing that makes your man pursue you even harder.

If he knows you’re out there, creating value in the world, that makes you valuable in his eyes.

And when he knows what he stands to lose, he’ll never think of taking you for granted.

So being unavailable from time to time creates some healthy tension. He’ll be enthusiastic about the “chase” and try to win you over again and again.

#5: Let Him Do His Thing

Now it’s time to talk about his independence. As happy as a guy is in his relationship, he still needs to feel a sense of freedom.

Even if he’s married, has kids, a job and a bunch of other responsibilities…

…a guy wants to know that he can pursue things related to his personal development.

That doesn’t mean he’s free to flirt with other women or go on a week-long sabbatical. He just needs to carve out a reasonable amount of time to explore his interests.

Like you, he’s got activities, hobbies and other things that he’s passionate about – not to mention a circle of friends that go with these.

Aside from that, there might be times when he's simply feeling beat from the daily grind and needs to decompress.

Or he might be busy tackling a colossal task that he wants to get off his plate so he can breathe easy.

Most guys are wired to have a laser-like focus on a project, and they’re not as good as multitasking as women.

So, he might seem a little withdrawn - and for a lack of a better word, INTENSE – when he's in this "get it done" mode.

In any case, it’s normal to feel worried because it feels like he’s pulling away and emotionally unavailable.

And I know that sometimes, men can seem aloof and even insensitive. And it makes you want to lock him down more and make sure he doesn’t get away.

But that can backfire and make him want to retreat further - especially when he feels a needy or desperate vibe from his partner.

However, you need to understand that this is part of a guy’s process when he’s got a lot of stuff to deal with. As his partner, you can give him the space he needs to crush whatever big goal he’s working on.

Gently reassure him that you’re in his corner while he’s battling it out. Meanwhile, you can focus on yourself (see #4) and get your own needs taken care of.

Once he comes out of his cave, he’ll thank you for being so supportive during that time.

More importantly, your guy will be able to focus all his energy back on you again.

A lot of women find it tricky to walk that tightrope between not loving their man enough, which makes him feel neglected…

… and being possessive or going overboard – which pushes him away.

The best way to avoid getting trapped in that situation is by knowing what makes a guy DEEPLY ATTACHED to his partner.

Every man has a trigger in his mind - once you know how to activate it, he’ll feel like you’re the only woman who truly understands him.

This is the signal that tells him you’re The One. That makes him want to pour all his love and attention into you - on a level you haven’t seen before.

You won’t have to worry about where you stand with him. He’ll let you know in no uncertain terms how much he loves you…

…starting today, and every day after that.

Follow the steps on the next page to get started:

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8 Differences Between True Love and Fake Love

 

By Slade Shaw

Author of Why Men Pull Away 

 

 “If you love someone but rarely make yourself available to him or her, that is not true love.”

-Thich Nhat Hanh

Guys don’t always say what they mean, whether it’s unintentional or not.

Sometimes, it’s a case of miscommunication where a man has trouble expressing himself, and you get the wrong message.

For instance, he could be fresh out of a relationship and didn’t know what he was getting into when started going out with you.

He might have thought at first that he was ready to commit, but somewhere down the line he realized that he couldn’t give you what you wanted.

And as he’s working out his feelings, he’ll give you what’s usually known as “mixed signals”.

Then there are times when he knows exactly what he wants, and will do anything to get it…

…even if it means lying to your face.

He’ll charm you into bed, then split the scene once he’s gotten what he wanted.

Either way, it’s NOT the kind of love you’re after.

So how do you know if he’s not feeling “all that” about being with you, whatever reason it may be?

And how do you spot signs of true love so you don’t waste your time on the WRONG guy?

Personally, I don’t believe in any of that mixed signals business. No matter what he says, it’s always his actions and behavior that tell the real story.

Witt that, here are the 8 biggest signs to help you know whether he feels a deep, heartfelt love for you…

…or he’s just taking you for a ride.

Bear in mind that you can spot these telltale clues in any guy, regardless of how long you’ve known him. These traits manifest on a deeper level for long-term relationships, and you’ll see early indications for a newer guy.

At any rate, you’d best find out as soon as possible – here we go…

 

Sign of True Love #1: You’re connected to him

 

You might hear some couples talking about the strong connection they have. They seem to know what the other is thinking, or even finish each other’s sentences.

It’s borderline psychic, and they swear there’s something supernatural going on.

But the real reason couples like them are so in tune is because they pay attention to each other.

There’s nothing complicated about it – they basically cultivate the habit of responding when one of them is trying to make a connection.

For example, you might say to your partner while you’re walking down the street, “Hey honey, check out that Prius with the Hello Kitty decals…I can’t decide if it’s cute or trashy!”

If he just ignores you or shrugs with an apathetic, “Hmm”, then the connection between you might not be as strong as you think.

But if he says something like, “Yeah, definitely trashy… that car’s perfect for you!” with a cheeky grin, then it means he’s really paying attention to you.

And it’s not just about pointing out something interesting to your partner. It can be more subtle, like bringing up a story and seeing how the other reacts, getting a quick opinion on your outfit, or asking for help with the laundry.

These are “small” ways couples try to connect with each other, and it takes practice for couples to get into this groove. You’ll see those who’ve been together for some time are naturally good at this.

On the other hand, a superficial kind of love doesn’t make the effort to make these little connections.

If a guy continuously brushes off your attempts to connect (and not because he just happens to be having a bad day), then he might not be that into the relationship as you think.

Sign of True Love #2: It’s all about clarity

 

When a guy isn’t really in love, it’s not really important to him whether he’s sending a clear message or not.

What do I mean by this?

Well for starters, he has the habit of letting you know at the last minute if he can’t make it or he’s running late.

And when you’re not together, it usually feels like he’s gone off the grid.

You don’t hear from him for long stretches of time, and he won’t bother to let you know what’s going on with him.

Even if he seems like the most charming, fun and sweet guy when you are together - especially in bed…

…he probably isn’t that committed if his actions outside of that are ambiguous.

True love is the opposite of that, which means he’ll leave no room for you to wonder if he’s going to flake out on you or not.

He’s going to make sure that the way he communicates with you is absolutely clear and “on the level”.

 

True Love Sign #3: He actually cares about being TOGETHER

 

With a relationship purely based on lust, there’s little to no effort involved when it comes to doing things that bring a couple closer.

There’s that “I’ll see you when I see you” kind of vibe, and you don’t feel any sort of GROWTH between you.

A man who’s in love is going to make sure he gets to spend time with you, even if he has to rearrange his whole schedule.

And it’s a sure sign he’s super serious if these are ritual type of activities, and not just getting busy between the sheets.

When a guy’s creating shared experiences, he’s also interested in forming a richer, DEEPER connection with you.

It’s not always about going on a weekend getaway or bungee jumping…

…but rather smaller things like huddling together for a weekend Netflix marathon or a Wednesday brunch.

Real love isn’t always focused on chasing the “high” that comes with romance, but also creating a stable routine that forms the foundation of your relationship.

 

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True Love Sign #4: He’s not afraid to push your limits

 

Couples who truly care for each other aren’t worried about being likeable or agreeable all the time.

If they have a difference of opinion, they can handle the fact that they don’t see eye-to-eye on it - especially when it comes to “dealbreaker” kind of topics.

More importantly, they can give their HONEST thoughts on the matter, even if it’s the polar opposite of what the other person believes.

Someone who’s more interested in a one-shot kind of deal (rather than being in it for the long run) isn’t going to risk rocking the boat.

He’ll be in politician mode, saying and doing everything to keep the good times rolling.

He’s thinking, “What’s the point of being honest about it if it’s going to piss her off?”

But a man in love isn’t as worried about the ups and downs, or the disagreements…

…because he’s more interested in knowing the REAL you…

…even if it means having to iron out the kinks.

He knows it’s a messy process, but he doesn’t mind.

Amanda, a friend of mine was telling me about her husband, Donnie:

“You know, at first I thought he was kind of a jerk for being so straight up with me. But he always respected me even though we disagreed on something.”

Then she added, “And if I messed up in some way, he called me out on it without making me feel bad. I’d get mad at Donnie before, but now I respect him for not just telling me what I wanted to hear, but what I needed to.”

 

True Love Sign #5: He meets you halfway…or MORE than that

 

We all know relationships are about give and take, but a guy in love is way more interested in GIVING than taking.

And when he gives, you’re 100% sure there’s no strings attached. He does it because he wants to, and it doesn’t matter how much he gets back in return.

Real love doesn’t keep score, so your guy isn’t going to bring up the time he waited half an hour because you had a last-minute emergency at work, or that he had to cancel poker night with the guys to see you.

Superficial relationships usually have self-serving agendas (i.e. sex, money, bragging rights).

When a guy is more concerned about having the favor returned, you’ll feel it …

…even if he doesn’t say something like, “I did this for you, now what are you going to do for me?”

Furthermore, a guy who isn’t really in love tends to be more selfish about his preferences.

He’ll likely insist on the stuff he likes rather than asking what you want.

It could be small stuff like where to eat, which movie to watch, or if you prefer the window or aisle seat on the plane.

It could also be things on a larger scale, like deciding where the relationship’s headed.

Fickle (a.k.a. Fake) love doesn’t really do well with making room for compromise, and couples are likely to split over this.

 

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True Love Sign #6: Your guy has “tunnel vision”

 

You can tell a guy’s in love with you if he’s trying to imply that you’re “different” from other women.

He’ll make you feel special - it’s as if you’re the only one that exists in his world.

Men interested in a serious, committed relationship are looking for that one girl who stands above the rest.

And if he thinks you’re The One, he WILL drop some hints to let you know.

Chances are he’ll be indirect about it because men often have trouble expressing themselves emotionally.

Feelings aren’t as familiar territory to them as it is for women (although there are exceptions of course).

That’s why it’s a bit of a challenge for him to untangle something as complex as LOVE.

So he’ll try to let you know by saying something along the lines of “You’re not like other women” or “I’ve never met anyone like you.”

Someone who doesn’t feel as strongly for you won’t ever approach this topic.

That’s because he’s not as focused - or I might even say “obsessed” – with you.

 

True Love Sign #7: He’s always there for you  

 

Most women have a little trouble figuring this one out.

But if you pay attention to his actions, there may be clues that he’s not just in it for the physical intimacy.

If he’s constantly doing big AND small stuff for you, it’s his way of letting you know about this true feelings.

A lot of guys are more of doers than tellers when it comes to love.

Also, chances are it’s the real deal if he’s taking note of the small details about you and putting them to good use later on.

Maybe he knows how much you’re into badly made horror movies, for instance.

Then he’ll surprise you with a couple of tickets for a midnight screening of that cult classic you were telling him about the other week.

All this means your happiness is important to him…

…and any guy worth being with doesn’t feel 100% like a man if he’s not doing enough to take care of you.

A guy who doesn’t care, won’t bother remembering those vital pieces of information. And he won’t lift a finger to make you happy unless it benefits him in some way.

True Love Sign #8: He’s part of your life – and not just the fun parts

Another way to tell he’s in love with you if he’s going out of his way to be part of your world.

You might notice him trying to find out what you love doing, then tag along even though he’s not into it himself.

He’ll also be more than happy to meet the other people in your life because he wants to know you better.

Being with your friends and seeing you in action helps him understand what makes you tick.

A guy who’s only interested in doing the deed won’t be interested at all in seeing this other side of you.

It doesn’t serve him in any way, and he doesn’t need to take the relationship past sleeping with you.

Fake love crumbles when things get tough. He won’t muster the energy to get to know your passions and interests, and doesn’t care about the people important to you.

Doing this takes time and effort. Whether or not he goes through this trouble is the real yardstick of his feelings for you.

If he’s willing to make sacrifices that he could have very well avoided…

…and he doesn’t stop trying even when things aren’t always great between you…

…then you’d better hold on to him tight.

This points to the fact that he’s tenacious in the face of adversity, which is more than I can say for the Wham-Bam-Thank-You-Ma’am kind of guys out there.

Whether you’ve just been seeing a guy, or you’ve known him for a long time, it’s never a good sign if it just seems like he’s phoning it in.

Maybe he used to show the signs that he’s got a solid commitment to you, but now you’re not so sure about your future with him.

It’s often hard to pinpoint exactly why men pull away all of a sudden.

But you don’t have to panic if your relationship’s going through this phase. There is a way to overcome the wall that men put up when they don’t feel that fire anymore.

What you need to do is understand how men think and get a good grasp of what makes them leave. 

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6 Signs That He’s In Love… and How To Make Him Desire You Like Crazy!

“When you fall in love, the natural thing to do is give yourself to it. That's what I think. It's just a form of sincerity.” ― Haruki Murakami

If you’ve known a guy for some time now, and you’ve got the hots for him….

…you probably want to know if he feels the same way.

More than that, you want to know if he’s falling head over heels in love with you.

Many women find themselves in a “he loves me, he loves me not” type of situation where things are ambiguous.

And if you’re reading this, chances are you want some clarity on your situation, too.

Uncertainty is a scary thing, especially when it’s your heart on the line. You might have gotten burned before, and you want to make sure what you’re getting into before you go “all in.”

So I get a lot of friends and clients asking, “How do I know for sure that he’s falling in love with me?”

To get to the bottom of this matter, I decided to get the inside track and pick the brains of guys who are in happy, committed relationships.

I went straight to the source so I could get the honest, unfiltered truth about what goes on in a guy’s head when he’s seeing stars and feeling those fireworks with you.

Take Nate, a classical guitarist from Arizona, for instance.

He's been married for 25 years now, and he was more than happy to share how he felt when he first met his wife, Suzanne (names have been changed for privacy reasons).

Here’s what he said:

“Before I became a musician, I served in the military. I won’t go too much into it, but I saw some action… and that left me scarred.

The first two years after I came home, I struggled with how I looked and the fact that I wasn’t the same person anymore, physically and mentally. I tried getting back into music, which was about the time I met Suzanne.

It wasn’t at all like ‘Love at First Sight’… I just saw her as an acquaintance. I was probably too caught up in my own stuff to notice her, anyway.

But then something inside me clicked. As I got to know her better, I found that we had a lot in common, especially when it came to music.

Then I started noticing other stuff about her, like how she runs her fingers through her hair, and how her eyebrows arched. It sounds silly I guess but I sort of just appreciate those small things.

Oh, and her laugh! I swear it’s the most amazing thing I’ve heard in my life… it’s like her laughter could solve world peace or something.

And then suddenly I couldn’t get her out of my head. I just liked everything about her, from the way she smelled, to how she spoke and a million little things that made her perfect.

It was like looking at a painting at an art gallery. At some point the colors just popped out and the details came alive.”

And that, ladies, is a man in love.

I see the same thing in older folks, too. Nate’s story reminded me of my friend’s grandparents. It’s very subtle, but it’s the most amazing thing ever.

When they’re together, I can see his grandpa’s eyes light up. I could tell how differently he saw her from other people - it was all over his face.

But now you’re probably thinking, “Ok, that’s nice and all, but what about the SIGNS?”

As I said, I talked to a lot of other men so they could weigh in as well. After calling, emailing and Skyping almost a thousand guys, I noticed that a lot of them echoed the same thoughts.

So, here are six of the most common responses I got across the board. I’ve picked out the best replies to give you some valuable insights on falling in love from a guy’s perspective:

 

#1: He Wants to Be Your Superman

Scott, 47, who’s been married for 20 years, says:

“I realized I was in love when I wanted to be the absolute best version of myself. Not just today, or tomorrow, but for years and years to come.

Ever since I met my wife, I knew I wanted to be that guy as long as I'm alive. I guess that seems over the top, but that's really how I feel."

When a man feels that powerful connection with you, there’s something inside that pushes him to do things he never thought he’d do.

And now, he’s busting his tail to do everything he can to make you fall in love with him even more.

You can see how much he lives and breathes for your affection and approval, and you’ll see the kind of EFFORT he puts in.

Scott continues, "Before my wife, I was just another lazy, unmotivated slacker. But then she saw something in me, and I knew I'd be an idiot to let her go. I got off my butt and decided she was the reason to get my act together.

It felt like all those B.S. excuses in my head suddenly crumbled into dust. I had to be a better guy so I could feel like I deserved her.

I was in college, and I stopped hanging out with my stoner friends.

For the first time in my life, I took something seriously. I was on the verge of dropping out, so my folks were surprised when my grades shot way up!”

I’m not saying women don’t feel inspired as well when they meet the right guy, but it’s different with men.

A guy’s brain is wired to please his woman, and when he meets The One, that part of his mind just lights up.

His protector and provider instincts kick in, and he’ll be damned if he can’t prove his worth to her.

 

#2: He’s Learning From You

Calvin, 38, has been through three relationships. He's now engaged to his fiancé, and he said this to say about her:

“In the past relationships I’ve had, I learned other important stuff, like controlling my emotions, keeping my jealousy in check, being a patient boyfriend, and basically how to act like a mature adult.

This was important stuff I had to learn before I could be ready to meet the girl I was going to marry.

So during those times, yes, I was in love because they taught me how to be a decent human being. So I’ll be forever grateful for them.”

He went on:

“When I fell in love with Allie, I also learned a lot of valuable lessons about myself and about love.

When I was with her, I realized that I also had to love myself, which was the biggest breakthrough in my life.

I grew up in a family that basically trained me to beat myself up emotionally if I did something wrong. And I kind of hated the world because of that.

But with Allie, I got a wake-up call. I finally learned how to lose that chip on my shoulder.

I knew she was different because she helped me understand who I really was. That helped me make that change that was long overdue.”

A lot of guys have beautiful qualities that are buried deep within them. You can't really see it at first, but it's there.

When he meets the right woman, that hidden part of him will suddenly blossom. It will catch a lot of people off-guard – including himself.

So if your man is learning and growing because you’re together, that’s a good sign he’s falling hard for you.

 

#3: He Wants To Experience It All With You

Al, a 55-year-old husband and father of four, shares his thoughts:

“When we were in our early twenties, I already knew my wife was the last girl I’d fall in love with. Being young and all, I wrote her a sappy love letter, and to this day I still feel exactly the same.”

This is what Al wrote:

“I want you to be crazy about me as much as I’m crazy about you. I want to be the man who loves and supports you like no one else can. I want to make you feel safe, happy and cared for every minute of the day.

Most of all I want to kiss you wherever we are. I want to kiss you on top of the Grand Canyon, or at a beautiful beach in Hawaii while we’re under the stars.

 I want to make love to you and feel you against me, I want to lose myself in you. I want to be part of your life and I want to experience it all with you.

 I want your family and friends to know me and be part of their lives too. I want them to see how much I want to be your man, the one who’ll stay with you now and forever.

Above all, I want to feel like this until we’re old and gray.”

Al went on, "I wasn't a poet or anything but those words just came out as easily as breathing…"

“Looking back, I could have written it better but I think it did the trick,” he said with a laugh.

I’ve helped a lot of my clients with their love lives, and this is one sign that tells me they’ve got a solid relationship. A guy who has serious feelings for you wants to feel connected to you in the most profound way possible.

And that often means he’ll make room in his life so he can be part of yours. He’ll want to create amazing experiences with you, and make memories that both of you will carry for a long time.

Watch the video for more reference:

 

#4: He Feels Accepted By You

Aaron, 52, has been married twice. He told me what he was thinking when he fell in love with his second wife, Bridgette:

“Looking back at my last marriage, one of the reasons it didn’t work out was that I felt judged all the time. I tried opening myself up and being honest about my feelings, but it always seemed like I was ‘punished’ for doing that.

Same goes for my shortcomings, too. I mean, I know I’m not perfect of course, but I felt more and more that my ex-wife didn’t accept me for who I was as a person who had all these flaws.”

This was pretty much the opposite case for his relationship now, which he also talked a bit about:

“I can really see the difference now in my current marriage. With Bridgette, I can actually be open and straight up with her, and she doesn’t flinch or freak out.

She knows exactly who I am and vice-versa.

Those walls I used to have aren’t there anymore. And I know that even if get real with her, and she sees who I truly am, she accepts all of it.

Not that it makes it ok for me to act like a jerk around her, it’s not like that.

What I mean is that she understands where I’m coming from as a man, and as the other half of the relationship …and she doesn’t judge me for that.”

Listen up, because this is something men will never tell you. Guys constantly feel pressured about having to live up to an ideal model of masculinity.

They’re worried that if they fall short of this expectation, they’ll be judged and get labeled as a “wuss.” Like women, a part of them just wants to be loved for who they are.

And they want to feel loved even when they’re not at their best, or if they’re not living up to the typical idea of manhood.

Also, a lot of men think that showing their emotions is a sign of weakness.

So when a guy opens up to his partner, a.k.a. The One Person he can be vulnerable with, that's a big deal to him.

Men don’t just want to be seen for what they’re useful for, or what they can provide you with.

They also want to be seen as a complex individual with a lot of layers. And if you make an effort to really get to know him and see the other parts of him, he'll feel accepted.

Let me tell you, that’s the best feeling a guy could ever have.

 

#5: He’s There For the Grimy Parts, Too

Kyle, 33, met his wife Karen at an online dating site. She had a two-year-old son from a previous relationship, and he didn't have a problem with that.

Here’s what he said:

"Honestly, I didn't know what I was getting into, but Karen had this vibe that closely matched mine.

We liked the same things, such as watching horror and indie movies and listening to the same music.

I just felt energized around her, and her son is the most amazing kid I've ever met.

And I'm not just saying that because of his mom (laughs).

Anyway, we'd been going out for like six months or so, and I knew she was the one because she had this kind of warmth that made me feel loved and incredibly strong at the same time.

Does that make sense? That's the best way I can describe it, I think."

So Kyle seemed like a really swell guy, but I didn’t know the whole story yet. It turns out he was giving himself way less credit than he deserved.

Karen was right by him while we were talking, so she couldn’t help but jump in:

"Ok, so there was this one time when we were partying with some of my friends.

There was plenty of food and drinks to go around, and I had more than I could handle. An hour into it, I started feeling real sick, real fast, so Kyle took me home.

I charged through the front door and went straight to the toilet to throw up. Kyle basically spent the whole night me as I went back and forth from my bed to the bathroom.

It was nothing serious thankfully; it was just a bad reaction to the food on top of having too much to drink.

But he was there the whole time helping me hurl into the toilet and cleaning up after me.

And in the morning, he made me coffee and pancakes. And we were barely dating for a couple of weeks when this happened!"

Then she had a couple more stories to share:

“On our first date, he brought over a Thomas The Tank Engine plush toy for my son because he asked me what he liked.

And there was one time I got slammed at work and had to work late, and the babysitter flaked out on me at the last moment.

Kyle stepped up on such short notice without a second thought. I came home to them sleeping on the couch together with my son's favorite storybook.

He barely knew my son back then, and he cared for him like his own. That rocked me to the core, it really did (wipes tears from her eyes)…

When my son's father dropped us like hot potatoes, I thought no one would ever want me.”

They've been married for four years now, and they've got a baby on their way.

Suffice to say, a guy who sticks around when he could very well bail is someone who's got it bad for you.

I’m not saying that a guy needs to have a high tolerance for bodily fluids or needs to love kids…

… but a man who isn’t just around for the fun stuff is someone who’s fallen hard for you.

 

#6: He Sees ALL of You

When a guy is in love, he’s super focused on you and notices all the little details that others don’t.

As what Nate said, he finds the most minuscule aspect of Suzanne enchanting. You could say he's biased about it, but that's a good thing.

A man who’s falling in love has this special filter just for you, and you can almost pinpoint the exact moment when it comes on.

And it’s not just the physical features, either.

He’s attuned to who you are and what’s going on in your life. He can readily identify the things that tick you off, what scares you, and the things you aspire for.

He knows the people in your world that annoy you, inspire you, or stress you out. He pays attention to these minute details because they’re just as important to him as they are to you.

Suzanne shared this about Nate:

“You know what? As much as we’re crazy about each other, Nate really sees me for who I am…  even the not-so-great-parts. He knows what I’m capable of … and he actually has the balls to call me out when I’m not being the best I can be (laughs).

I need someone like that to ground me, but also make me feel seen and appreciated at the same time. That’s my Nate.”

 

So He’s In Love With You – What’s Next?

Now that you’ve gotten to know the most honest signs of a man’s love for you, it’s time to take action.

If you’re seeing these signs in your guy, consider yourself the luckiest gal. Any woman who’s been on the dating and relationship circuit for some time will tell you how hard it is to find a man who’s got it together.

So you need to make sure that spark you have between you now will keep burning bright for decades to come.

On the other hand, if you’re not seeing enough of these signs in your guy…

… and you’re worried that you’re doing something wrong…

… don’t lose hope!

Regardless of where you stand with a guy, there’s plenty you can do to make him love you like crazy, over and over.

It starts with a subtle but psychologically potent approach to make him DEEPLY ATTACHED to you.

Check out this video now to learn more:

5 Steps to Getting The Love, Affection and Passion You’ve Always Wanted – CLICKHERE

9 Sweet Things To Say To Your Boyfriend

 

say sweet things to your boyfriend

People always want to make sure that they say the right thing to their boyfriend. They want to make sure that they say something thoughtful and meaningful, but something that will come across as genuine. Unfortunately, most of the sweet thing to say to your boyfriend will come across as cheesy, campy, and insincere. If you are looking for sweet things to say to a boyfriend, use these nine different lines.

I Love It When You're

This can be one of the sweetest things to say to your boyfriend. It will help to make them feel special and loved. It will also direct them to the things that you like, giving them an ego boost and a confidence boost.

I Want to Be With You

It may seem corny to tell someone that you want to be with them when you are already with them. A sweet phrase like this simply re-affirms this need in the minds of your boyfriend. This can also be an ego boost and a confidence boost.

I Like You

If you want extra cute points, tell your boyfriend "I like you" at any random point in the day. I like you is so simple, but can mean the world to someone who needs assurance about your feelings.

I Can't Believe I'm With You

This phrase is also an ego boost for a boyfriend. This will help to make your boyfriend feel special. This phrase can also be compared to "I am so lucky to have you".

You Make Me Feel Special

Your boyfriend wants to know that you like them. They want to know that they are doing a good job as a boyfriend. This phrase will help them to fulfill that need.

You are the Cutest/Hottest/Most Handsome Man I've Ever Seen

Everyone wants to know that they are good looking. This sweet phrase will simply reassure your boyfriend of their looks.

You're The Best

Your boyfriend wants to know that he is doing a good job at being your boyfriend. This phrase will help them to feel like they are a good boyfriend.

I Miss You

Everyone wants to feel as though they are missed. It helps people to feel loved, and can help to strengthen relationships during any time apart. This phrase will help to make your boyfriend feel wanted when you cannot be together.

I Love You

This phrase is simple to say. If you mean the words, remind your boyfriend that you love them. Each reminder will show them that you have continued strong emotions toward them.

Each of these lines will have a different and special meaning to your relationship, and to your boyfriend. Think about the different lines, and how each would come across to the person you are saying them to. You will find that certain lines are more powerful than others. Use the appropriate lines at the appropriate time to have the best effect on your boyfriend.

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