5 Habits That Men Routinely Fall In Love With

 

By Clayton Max, Author of Infatuation Scripts - CLICK HERE 

“A girl should be two things: classy and fabulous.” ― Coco Chanel

Whether you’re looking for a long-term partner, or already have one, it pays to have the right habits in a relationship.

The thing about guys is that they don’t always know how to articulate what they want in their woman.

Most men weren’t exactly taught how to express their feelings while growing up. So it can be tricky sometimes for them to let their partner know about their emotional and physical needs.

And this leads to all sorts of misunderstandings and unfulfilled expectations, which can put a wedge between you two.

Luckily, I’m here to give you the inside track to how men think. Drawing from my own experience and from helping my clients, here are the Top 5 Habits That Make Men Crazy About You:

#1: Play Hard to Get

Ok, this might sound like familiar territory, but listen up.

Typically, a lot of women (and men!) try to make someone like them by putting on a detached-but-I-might-be-attracted-to-you kind of act.

Also, these women may wait for an arbitrary amount of time to reply to messages (e.g., a couple of hours, a few days, etc.) to avoid looking desperate. Worse, they’ll pretend they’re busy, hoping it’ll make a guy more interested in them.

But this approach tends to backfire.

It’s confusing - and worse, he’ll eventually see through this stilted act. This, of course, is a huge turn-off.

There’s no problem showing interest in a guy. And there’s no need in this day and age to play silly mind games.

Instead, you can play a different kind of game – one built on authenticity.

Give your guy hints that you like him, and be enthusiastic when you’re together. Experts find that a person starts falling in love with someone once they knew they wanted them.

As for the “playing hard to get” part, that means actually being busy. That’s not the empty kind of busy where you’re at home, scrolling down endlessly on your social media feed.

It’s better to be fully engaged with all the other parts of your life. You’ve got your work, social life, hobbies and other passions that make you well-rounded and happy.

If that makes you unavailable from time to time, that’s a good thing.

Richard Wiseman, author of “59 Seconds: Change Your Life in Under a Minute”, did some research on this.

He found that people who were hard to get gave the impression that they’re a scarce resource. However, they ALSO had to be enthusiastic about the other person to be attractive.

That way, it put the subject in a more balanced and attractive light.

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#2: Rock His World

In a nutshell, you need to generate strong emotions within your guy while he’s with you. He’ll then associate those feelings with you, which naturally creates that spark.

In an MIT study, behavioral researchers found that people have a habit of transferring their feelings from one setting to the next.

What does this mean?

For instance, if you nearly hit another car while driving to work, you’d carry those negative vibes into the office. That previous, unrelated experience would bleed into the rest of your day.

Some call this “emotional misattribution” or “emotional leakage” - this is the human tendency to attach strong feelings to the nearest person, even if they had little to do with it.

Also, it has to do with the fact that being physically aroused can easily translate into a sexual attraction. So, if you can find a way to keep things exciting for him – like doing sports or something physically intensive – then he’ll latch those feelings onto you.

#3: Laugh at His Jokes

Admittedly, a lot of women reacted to this piece of advice with a raised eyebrow.

But hear me out – this could be a game-changer in your relationship.

First of all, you don’t need to be rolling on the floor with tears in your eyes if his jokes bombed.

A polite chuckle is perfectly fine, and that gives him the hint that he’s not funny (i.e. you’re not attracted to him).

But if your funny bone really is tingling from his witty one-liners, then go ahead and laugh.

Studies show that humor is a huge factor in sexual attraction. As you already know, women like guys who are funny because it’s a sign of intelligence (which is an attractive trait).

But recent research done by Westfield State College, University of Western Ontario, and McMaster University state that "men preferred those who were receptive to their own humor, particularly for sexual relationships.”

This seems like it’s not so much about treating a guy’s ego with kid gloves…

…and more to do with a man’s desired to be appreciated by his partner.

Trust me, I know plenty of guys who have appreciation as one of their “must haves” in a relationship. So, appreciating his sense of humor is a good step in that direction.

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#4: Find Strength in Numbers

According to several studies, you can be more attractive by hanging out with your friends.

For instance, there’s research from Tilburg University in the Netherlands and the University of California that both document what’s known as the “cheerleader effect.”

This basically states that someone’s perception of you changes favorable once you’re in a group.

On the surface, you might think it’s because you’ll appear more sociable and friendly. This makes you attractive without looking like you’re trying too hard.

But there’s another angle to it. You see, the human brain has a habit of categorizing individual elements (like shapes, objects and people) into a general group.

This is mostly a hardwired survival trait to not visually focus too hard on one thing - but rather the whole picture. And this instinct spills over into a person’s social life as well.

So in a practical sense, you can set your social media (and online dating) profile picture to a photo featuring you with a group of friends. Just make sure it’s clear who you are in the picture so you don’t get lost in the sea of faces!

If you’re looking to a meet a guy in a bar or a party, make sure to bring your squad along too. Social proofing is a real phenomenon, so use it to your advantage.

#5: Appeal to His Sensual Side

There’s really no surprise here. Any guy who’s interested in women will obviously want physical intimacy in the relationship.

But you’d be surprised – and even downright concerned – how many women are lacking this department.

A lot of them take for granted the power of using their feminine charm to win a guy over.

And no, I’m not telling you to start acting out a scene from an adult film to turn a guy on.

What I am saying is that you should be more aware of a guy’s hot buttons, and learn how to push them.

For instance, women underestimate the power of physical touch.

Most men go their whole lives not knowing the pure pleasure of a validating pat on the back, a hug, or other forms of affection.

Women, on the other hand, tend to experience this on a daily basis.

So using body language is an excellent way to ignite his senses – whether it’s brushing against his arm or leg against yours “accidentally”…

…or putting your hand on his arm for a few precious seconds.

Remember, men love being teased, and the delicious pleasure of the “slow burn.”

And of course, men also appreciate variety when it comes to the main event in bed. Make an effort and take the initiative to spice things up every now and then.

Better yet, you could even go as far as asking him what he wants, then apply it in bed after (with your consent, of course). That would make for an interesting topic, don't you think?

One more thing - there’s another trait I didn’t mention earlier, but it’s incredibly attractive to men as well.

A study done at Rutgers University found a unique psychological trait in guys that they’ve dubbed as an “emotional tripwire.”

Now, once you understand how this works – and how to use it (which is super easy by the way)…

…your guy will instantly enter a state of intense infatuation.

It’s like a splinter in his mind, and he’ll be incapable of thinking of any other women in a romantic way – except YOU.

There’s a free video presentation that explains this in SHOCKING detail, so make sure you’re sitting down before watching it:

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10 Signs He Loves You (Even if He Doesn’t Say it Out Loud)

 By Slade Shaw

Author of Why Men Pull Away 

 

“If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.” - Oprah Winfrey

In our hyperconnected world, people tend to throw around words that don’t hold much weight.

With social media in particular, a lot of folks often post stuff that doesn’t have much in the way of value.

They’re either superficial (like cat videos or memes), or spout empty platitudes that pay lip service.

And when it comes to relationships – or ones that have yet to get off the ground – people often say things they don’t necessarily mean.

A guy might tell you that he’s in love with you, but his actions don’t quite match up to his words. Or he could be, in fact, falling hard for you, but can’t find the words to say it.

Why is reading a guy’s signs such a tricky business?

Why can’t he just drop the whole mixed signals act and be straight up with how he really feels about you?

You’ve probably met and dated a handful guys, so you know what I’m talking about.

And I can totally understand if you’re feeling a little jaded by men who can’t seem to get it together and be honest about their feelings.

Well, let me help you with that and give you the REAL signs that a guy’s super serious about you – and worth waiting for.

 

First, a Warning

 

Ok, so today you’re going to find out if a guy loves you - or if you should move on…

…but let me get something important out of the way real quick.

You see, women talk about mixed signals all the time when they’re trying to figure out where they stand with a Potential Someone.

But here’s what I always tell them: there’s NOTHING “mixed” about a guy’s signals.

Everything he does - and doesn’t do - is a clear indication of what’s really going on in that head of his.

And a lot of times, his words won’t have as much weight as his ACTIONS.

When the connection is there, and you already know you’re bonkers for each other, saying those three words is just icing on the cake.

It’s wonderful to hear him drop the “L” word on you – but they’ll only confirm what your HEART already knew long before.

So now you’re probably telling me, “What do you think I am, some sort of psychic?”

“Surely you don’t expect me to open his mind like a book and ‘already know’ before he opens his mouth?”

I hear you – and that’s why it’s time to give you the Top 10 Ways To Tell He’s Got It Bad For You:

 

#1: He’ll Drop Clues

 

Relax, you don’t have to be Sherlock Holmes to crack the mystery of his heart.

Most guys are not going to tell you about his feelings upfront (surprise, surprise), but it’s not because they’re trying to toy with your emotions.

It’s more of the fact that a lot of men aren’t big on expressing themselves emotionally.

I know a lot of guys who have trouble with this. They were raised to think that opening up and talking about this stuff isn’t really a useful (or masculine) trait to have.

And sadly, it’s made it hard for them to talk about something as difficult as feelings...

…which makes professing their LOVE for you an even BIGGER challenge.

But nonetheless, it’s not that hard to decode the real meaning behind his somewhat cryptic statements.

You just need to ask yourself a couple of important questions - and the answer will reveal itself soon enough:

• When he talks to me, does he make me feel I’m important to him? (e.g. “Hey, I found that vintage 80s Rainbow Brite lunch box you were looking for…it was on this guy’s nostalgia collector’s blog. I’ll send you the link…you owe me a coffee!”)
• Is he implying that he’s only interested in ME – and no one else? (e.g. “Man, working at the office can be such a drag…especially those noisy girls over at marketing with their faces buried in their Instagram pages. This place could use someone cool like you J”)

It’s likely he’ll try to mask it with humor or act nonchalant about it.

But if there’s that unmistakable spark of affection beneath it, he’s probably not putting you in the Friend Zone anytime soon.

 

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#2: He’s got THAT look

 

Yup, the eyes are windows to the soul and all that.

But don’t get all clinical and start measuring the diameter of his pupils. That would be weird…

Instead, think about the way he looks at you.

Is he mesmerized by your mere presence?

His eyes should be telling you, “You’re too good to be real…yet here you are.”

And is he constantly stealing glances at you? When you sneak a peek at your guy, do you catch him staring at you – then quickly looking away?

Guys are visual creatures, as the saying goes. If he likes what he sees, he’ll have a hard time tearing his eyes away.

 

#3: He has ZERO excuses

 

A guy in love isn’t going to let his work or any other stuff he has going on to get in the way of seeing you.

No matter how full his plate gets, he’ll always squeeze in some “we time” with you. You won’t hear him making half-baked excuses that “things are crazy at work” or “I’m kind of busy right now.”

That’s the thing about a man who’s into you: he’ll move mountains to clear space in his week for you, and it SHOWS.

And even if he’s super busy at the moment, he’ll always let you know what’s going on with him.

He’ll never make you feel like he’s gone off the grid and keep you updated when he can see you again.

 

#4: He keeps it REAL with you

 

You know what I mean by this if you’ve ever had a close friend who “tells it like it is”…

…and doesn’t tell you what you want to hear, but what you NEED to hear.

When a guy truly loves you, he understands what makes you tick.

He knows BOTH your great and not-so-great qualities…and yet he STILL thinks you’re the greatest person he’s met.

And if he sees that you’re not being the best you can be, this guy won’t be afraid to point it out.

But he’s not going to be condescending or a jerk about it. He’ll be more likely to tease you, bust your chops and give you “a hard time” rather than actually making you feel bad.

 

#5: His time is YOUR time

 

I mentioned early that it’s a good sign when he makes you feel important. Another part of that is him going out of his way to do stuff together with you.

This goes beyond moving important stuff in his calendar to see you. 

The operative word here is “together”.

If he’s trying to create a DEEPER bond by way of a regular ROUTINE, that’s something you shouldn’t ignore.

Maybe he’s taking the initiative to set up weekly activities like weekend coffee at his favorite hangout, or taking you along to his book club meeting to see if you might dig it.

This is him moving from “single mode” to a I-think-I-want-to-get -serious-with-this-girl mindset.

 

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#6: He totally puts you at ease

 

When you don’t know where you stand with someone, the way he acts and talks puts you on edge. You can’t put your finger on it, but you know he’s the flaky type.

Not with this guy. Everything he says and does points to the fact that he’s not going anywhere.

There’s nothing ambiguous about him, especially with the way he makes you feel.

Whether it’s his choice of words (as indirect as they may be), his body language or the general vibe he gives off…

…you just know he wants to be on board – no ifs, ands or buts about it.

 

#7: He knows it’s not always about him

 

We all have a tendency to be a little self-centered from time to time, and that’s ok.

But if a guy who loves you, you can see how much he’s willing to meet you halfway with a lot of things.

For instance, he’s not going to insist on eating at that new Asian seafood restaurant that’s been getting good Yelp reviews if you’re not feeling it.

And even though he’s not a Greek cuisine kind of guy, he’s cool about eating there because your preferences matter to him.

That’s just the kind of man he is.

He knows relationships are a matter of give and take, which is why you’ve got as much say in it as he does.

 

#8: He’s always trying to make you happy

 

You probably don’t want an overeager puppy of a guy waiting on hand and foot for your every need - that would be a little scary…

But you do want someone who’s naturally attuned to your inner state and knows when something’s off.

You might not even say anything, but he knows when to swoop in and take action.

He’ll ask if you want anything when he goes on a coffee run, offer you a ride to work before running his own errands, or even organize your DVD collection alphabetically.

Whatever it is, he’s working overtime to make sure everything’s fine and dandy in your world.

If a man’s in love, he LOVES knowing he gets to take care of you in the way he knows how.

#9: The details matter to him

 

John Gottman, founder of the Gottman Institute and author of “The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work”, has literally spent decades observing couples up close to understand how relationships work.

In his research, he’s found that the strongest couples make an effort to know each other’s inner worlds.

He calls this as having “Love Maps”, which is basically a detailed knowledge of what’s going on with your partner.

And it’s easy to tell when a guy is trying to create his love map for you, whether you’ve known him for years or just getting to know him.

According to Gottman, if he cares enough to know the “little” things about you, it’s a sign of a healthy relationship.

This includes stuff like your favorite place to eat, your greatest rival at work, your idea of the perfect job, your biggest dream, your best friends and so on.

When you tell him about these things, naturally picks up on these little bits and pieces and saves them for future reference. He does this because he knows it makes up the amazing and unique person you are.

 

#10: He’s in it for the long haul

 

Does your man have a certain tenacity to him? Is he the type who doesn’t give up when he hits a roadblock in life?

Would you even say he’s a little stubborn?

It’s easy to brush this off as a part of his masculine identity, but it may run deeper than you think.

This quality could also be a promising sign if it carries over into the way he deals with you, and your relationship.

You might have some past issues or baggage you’ve picked up from your ex…

…or your differences with your guy are starting to bubble to the surface…

…or maybe he’s going through some of his own stuff while trying to spend time with you.

These challenges are totally par for the course for any relationship.

So if these things don’t phase him - and he’s more than willing to power through them – well then, you’ve got a keeper on your hands!

Now, if you’re seeing a couple of these signs in him, he might just be a really swell guy.

It could be that he’s awesome to everyone and only sees you as one of his friends.

However, if he’s checking off MOST of those boxes (like six or more), then you should be seriously thinking about your future with him…

…because he’s probably thinking THAT way about you.

Then there’s the other possibility that you’re not seeing any of these. There might be moments when it might seem like there’s a glimmer of hope, but it’s very faint.

Most of the time, he’s acting lukewarm towards you at best. If that’s the case, DON’T throw in the towel just yet!

Some men need a little more gentle prodding and encouragement than others.

If your gut is telling you there’s a connection between you and Mr. Slightly Dense - and you’re worried he might PULL AWAY for good…

…then it’s time to seal the deal before he leaves forever:

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5 Simple But Powerful Ways To Make Him Feel Loved

 

5 Simple But Powerful Ways To Make Him Feel Loved

By Hannah Jackson
Author of Make Any Man Love You 

“One word
Frees us of all the weight and pain of life:
That word is love.”
― Sophocles

Whether you’ve met someone new, or you’ve been in a relationship for some time now, it’s important to keep your connection strong.

As the months and years go by, it's normal for the passion to wind down a bit. But even as that happens, some habits will keep you close to your guy.

Life can get crazy, and a bunch of other things may occupy you and your partner’s time, so that can get in the way sometimes. The way you express "how much I love you", "I love you guy" or "I love you man meme" meanings are very important and you should keep do it in various different ways.

But if you can keep his love and attention on you even as you're going through a busy week, that will keep you going for a long time to come.

As much as we'd like to have a one-size-fits-all secret formula for staying happy together, it's really a combination of different things put together.

You’ll need to make the time, effort and loving patience for your relationship to flourish.

But it’s not as complicated or hard as some people think. It’s more about doing the small stuff every day.

On their own, these things might not seem like much until they’ve stacked up over time.

And when you take step back see what you’ve put into the relationship, you’ll be glad you started as early as now.

To get your man to appreciate the full force of your love – and get him to reciprocate – here are 5 Everyday Habits to Make Your Man Fall Deeper In Love With You:

#1: Be the Yin to His Yang

If you're a woman looking for a man, you'll need your femininity to appeal to his masculinity.

In a relationship, there needs to be a balance of both energies. So what you bring to the table matters to both of you.

He needs your feminine essence to complement his masculine side, but it's not about catering to his ego.

Instead, you want to be the woman in his life that knows where he's coming from. You can do that by acknowledging the "manly" aspects of his personality and appreciating them.

Guys love nothing more than being able to look out for his loved ones, and they get an immense amount of satisfaction out of it.

Your guy also feels at his most masculine when he can face a problem head-on and tackle a massive task with his force of will.

And I'm not saying you can't be those things either, but in a relationship, a man wants the privilege to be able to do those things for you.

If you can give him props for that, and recognize his role in your shared connection, he'll be eternally grateful.

Let him be that guy for you by sending words of appreciation and kindness his way.

When he's able to express his masculinity in the relationship, he'll feel like the Superman to your Lois Lane.

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#2: Take Care of Him

Showing your softer, more vulnerable side to your guy isn't weakness. It's about giving him the gift of your nurturing care - and choosing to do so.

A lot of women underestimate the power of acts of kindness in their relationship. But when a guy knows that he's getting personal attention from the special person in his life, he'll feel loved.

As Bob Marley once sang, "You make me feel like sweepstake winner!"

Not only that, your gentle, healing energy recharges his batteries. He can go back to being his most masculine self again and take on the world.

Being together is a matter of give and take, so trust me, he'll want to give back as good as he gets. Doing the "little" things might not seem like much in the big picture, but they add up.

And it will make the connection between you that much stronger. Here are some ways you can start doing that:

- Praise him within earshot of family, friends, and colleagues

- Make him his favorite beverage, or do a Starbucks run and surprise him at work (if you think he's cool with that)

- Gently encourage him to share his feelings after he's had a rough day. Listen to him and let him explore his feelings.

- Send him a couple of texts or messages (less is more, so don't bombard him) every day. It can be anything that makes him feel special, like sending him a silly joke, a quick but heartfelt note, or even a racy message if he seems game for that. A little female attention goes a long way!

- Give him your full attention when you're hanging out together - put away your phone for a while and let him feel your full presence

- Plan a surprise date for him. Do something together that you know he'll genuinely like. Guys love it when they can kick back once in a while and let their partner do the planning or decision-making.

#3: Get His Motor Running

Passion and physical intimacy are the glue of a romantic relationship. Without it, you may as well be platonic friends.

So you need to find small ways you can turn him on in your day-to-day lives. When you make a move on him, it doesn’t have to be overtly sexual – not all the time, at least.

Save the big stuff for when it really counts (i.e., when you’re behind closed doors). During your daily routine, remind him that you’re his lady, and he’s the hottest guy you’ve ever laid eyes on.

Your man will never tell you, but he wants to be a little objectified from time to time.

He wants to know you still turn him on and want to take advantage of him as soon as you have a moment alone with him.

Subtlety is key. Implying it is better than spelling it out.

Try the following on him:

• Anything that draws attention to your figure will get his attention. Next time you’re trying to put something on, ask him to zip you up. It seems casual on the surface, but he’ll know what’s going on when he gets a little glimpse of you.
• Send him a message along the lines of, “Hey honey, hope you’re doing ok. Listen, I’m trying on some swimsuits at the store. Could you tell me which one looks better on me?”
• Here's another one: "Almost finished with my night out with the girls. Feeling a little tipsy. Gosh, hope no one takes advantage of me when I get home later."
• Complement his physicality. Try telling him things like, “You look good enough to eat in that suit,” “I get a little thirsty watching you fix the car,” or “You’re so strong.”

Men love being teased and the slow burn of anticipation.

Make it fun game by leaving a breadcrumb trail for your man to follow. Do it right, and he’ll be more than eager to march to your beat.

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#4: Take Care of Yourself

It might sound counterintuitive to focus on yourself to make your man feel loved. However, this actually makes sense in the bigger scheme of things.

You see, men don’t like to be smothered. Yes, your guy wants your love and appreciation, but not to the point where you’re forgetting your own needs in the equation.

Your man doesn't know it, but he needs you also to focus your energy outside the relationship.

In the back of his mind, he has to know that you’re also doing things that make YOU happy which doesn’t involve him.

Otherwise, he’ll feel like it’s all on him to give you that sense of fulfillment in life. That’s not a healthy dynamic to have.

By maintaining your own identity and sense of independence, it’s a reassurance for him that you’ve got it together.

And this actually makes him more drawn to you.

It works the same way for him. He also needs to provide himself with that fulfillment so he can be a whole person - while being in a relationship with you.

No matter how amazing your guy is, having him in your life isn’t an excuse to let everything else fall to the wayside. BALANCE is crucial, so taking care of the following will make your relationship stable:

• Your health, fitness and overall mental and physical well-being
• Your social life
• Your career
• Your other hobbies and things you’re passionate about
• Any projects you’re involved in (i.e., volunteering at a non-profit, etc.)

And the great thing about going off the radar for a while and doing your own thing is that he’ll MISS you.

Guys have a secret fear of losing you. Funny enough, this is the very thing that makes your man pursue you even harder.

If he knows you’re out there, creating value in the world, that makes you valuable in his eyes.

And when he knows what he stands to lose, he’ll never think of taking you for granted.

So being unavailable from time to time creates some healthy tension. He’ll be enthusiastic about the “chase” and try to win you over again and again.

#5: Let Him Do His Thing

Now it’s time to talk about his independence. As happy as a guy is in his relationship, he still needs to feel a sense of freedom.

Even if he’s married, has kids, a job and a bunch of other responsibilities…

…a guy wants to know that he can pursue things related to his personal development.

That doesn’t mean he’s free to flirt with other women or go on a week-long sabbatical. He just needs to carve out a reasonable amount of time to explore his interests.

Like you, he’s got activities, hobbies and other things that he’s passionate about – not to mention a circle of friends that go with these.

Aside from that, there might be times when he's simply feeling beat from the daily grind and needs to decompress.

Or he might be busy tackling a colossal task that he wants to get off his plate so he can breathe easy.

Most guys are wired to have a laser-like focus on a project, and they’re not as good as multitasking as women.

So, he might seem a little withdrawn - and for a lack of a better word, INTENSE – when he's in this "get it done" mode.

In any case, it’s normal to feel worried because it feels like he’s pulling away and emotionally unavailable.

And I know that sometimes, men can seem aloof and even insensitive. And it makes you want to lock him down more and make sure he doesn’t get away.

But that can backfire and make him want to retreat further - especially when he feels a needy or desperate vibe from his partner.

However, you need to understand that this is part of a guy’s process when he’s got a lot of stuff to deal with. As his partner, you can give him the space he needs to crush whatever big goal he’s working on.

Gently reassure him that you’re in his corner while he’s battling it out. Meanwhile, you can focus on yourself (see #4) and get your own needs taken care of.

Once he comes out of his cave, he’ll thank you for being so supportive during that time.

More importantly, your guy will be able to focus all his energy back on you again.

A lot of women find it tricky to walk that tightrope between not loving their man enough, which makes him feel neglected…

… and being possessive or going overboard – which pushes him away.

The best way to avoid getting trapped in that situation is by knowing what makes a guy DEEPLY ATTACHED to his partner.

Every man has a trigger in his mind - once you know how to activate it, he’ll feel like you’re the only woman who truly understands him.

This is the signal that tells him you’re The One. That makes him want to pour all his love and attention into you - on a level you haven’t seen before.

You won’t have to worry about where you stand with him. He’ll let you know in no uncertain terms how much he loves you…

…starting today, and every day after that.

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8 Differences Between True Love and Fake Love

 

By Slade Shaw

Author of Why Men Pull Away 

 

 “If you love someone but rarely make yourself available to him or her, that is not true love.”

-Thich Nhat Hanh

Guys don’t always say what they mean, whether it’s unintentional or not.

Sometimes, it’s a case of miscommunication where a man has trouble expressing himself, and you get the wrong message.

For instance, he could be fresh out of a relationship and didn’t know what he was getting into when started going out with you.

He might have thought at first that he was ready to commit, but somewhere down the line he realized that he couldn’t give you what you wanted.

And as he’s working out his feelings, he’ll give you what’s usually known as “mixed signals”.

Then there are times when he knows exactly what he wants, and will do anything to get it…

…even if it means lying to your face.

He’ll charm you into bed, then split the scene once he’s gotten what he wanted.

Either way, it’s NOT the kind of love you’re after.

So how do you know if he’s not feeling “all that” about being with you, whatever reason it may be?

And how do you spot signs of true love so you don’t waste your time on the WRONG guy?

Personally, I don’t believe in any of that mixed signals business. No matter what he says, it’s always his actions and behavior that tell the real story.

Witt that, here are the 8 biggest signs to help you know whether he feels a deep, heartfelt love for you…

…or he’s just taking you for a ride.

Bear in mind that you can spot these telltale clues in any guy, regardless of how long you’ve known him. These traits manifest on a deeper level for long-term relationships, and you’ll see early indications for a newer guy.

At any rate, you’d best find out as soon as possible – here we go…

 

Sign of True Love #1: You’re connected to him

 

You might hear some couples talking about the strong connection they have. They seem to know what the other is thinking, or even finish each other’s sentences.

It’s borderline psychic, and they swear there’s something supernatural going on.

But the real reason couples like them are so in tune is because they pay attention to each other.

There’s nothing complicated about it – they basically cultivate the habit of responding when one of them is trying to make a connection.

For example, you might say to your partner while you’re walking down the street, “Hey honey, check out that Prius with the Hello Kitty decals…I can’t decide if it’s cute or trashy!”

If he just ignores you or shrugs with an apathetic, “Hmm”, then the connection between you might not be as strong as you think.

But if he says something like, “Yeah, definitely trashy… that car’s perfect for you!” with a cheeky grin, then it means he’s really paying attention to you.

And it’s not just about pointing out something interesting to your partner. It can be more subtle, like bringing up a story and seeing how the other reacts, getting a quick opinion on your outfit, or asking for help with the laundry.

These are “small” ways couples try to connect with each other, and it takes practice for couples to get into this groove. You’ll see those who’ve been together for some time are naturally good at this.

On the other hand, a superficial kind of love doesn’t make the effort to make these little connections.

If a guy continuously brushes off your attempts to connect (and not because he just happens to be having a bad day), then he might not be that into the relationship as you think.

Sign of True Love #2: It’s all about clarity

 

When a guy isn’t really in love, it’s not really important to him whether he’s sending a clear message or not.

What do I mean by this?

Well for starters, he has the habit of letting you know at the last minute if he can’t make it or he’s running late.

And when you’re not together, it usually feels like he’s gone off the grid.

You don’t hear from him for long stretches of time, and he won’t bother to let you know what’s going on with him.

Even if he seems like the most charming, fun and sweet guy when you are together - especially in bed…

…he probably isn’t that committed if his actions outside of that are ambiguous.

True love is the opposite of that, which means he’ll leave no room for you to wonder if he’s going to flake out on you or not.

He’s going to make sure that the way he communicates with you is absolutely clear and “on the level”.

 

True Love Sign #3: He actually cares about being TOGETHER

 

With a relationship purely based on lust, there’s little to no effort involved when it comes to doing things that bring a couple closer.

There’s that “I’ll see you when I see you” kind of vibe, and you don’t feel any sort of GROWTH between you.

A man who’s in love is going to make sure he gets to spend time with you, even if he has to rearrange his whole schedule.

And it’s a sure sign he’s super serious if these are ritual type of activities, and not just getting busy between the sheets.

When a guy’s creating shared experiences, he’s also interested in forming a richer, DEEPER connection with you.

It’s not always about going on a weekend getaway or bungee jumping…

…but rather smaller things like huddling together for a weekend Netflix marathon or a Wednesday brunch.

Real love isn’t always focused on chasing the “high” that comes with romance, but also creating a stable routine that forms the foundation of your relationship.

 

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True Love Sign #4: He’s not afraid to push your limits

 

Couples who truly care for each other aren’t worried about being likeable or agreeable all the time.

If they have a difference of opinion, they can handle the fact that they don’t see eye-to-eye on it - especially when it comes to “dealbreaker” kind of topics.

More importantly, they can give their HONEST thoughts on the matter, even if it’s the polar opposite of what the other person believes.

Someone who’s more interested in a one-shot kind of deal (rather than being in it for the long run) isn’t going to risk rocking the boat.

He’ll be in politician mode, saying and doing everything to keep the good times rolling.

He’s thinking, “What’s the point of being honest about it if it’s going to piss her off?”

But a man in love isn’t as worried about the ups and downs, or the disagreements…

…because he’s more interested in knowing the REAL you…

…even if it means having to iron out the kinks.

He knows it’s a messy process, but he doesn’t mind.

Amanda, a friend of mine was telling me about her husband, Donnie:

“You know, at first I thought he was kind of a jerk for being so straight up with me. But he always respected me even though we disagreed on something.”

Then she added, “And if I messed up in some way, he called me out on it without making me feel bad. I’d get mad at Donnie before, but now I respect him for not just telling me what I wanted to hear, but what I needed to.”

 

True Love Sign #5: He meets you halfway…or MORE than that

 

We all know relationships are about give and take, but a guy in love is way more interested in GIVING than taking.

And when he gives, you’re 100% sure there’s no strings attached. He does it because he wants to, and it doesn’t matter how much he gets back in return.

Real love doesn’t keep score, so your guy isn’t going to bring up the time he waited half an hour because you had a last-minute emergency at work, or that he had to cancel poker night with the guys to see you.

Superficial relationships usually have self-serving agendas (i.e. sex, money, bragging rights).

When a guy is more concerned about having the favor returned, you’ll feel it …

…even if he doesn’t say something like, “I did this for you, now what are you going to do for me?”

Furthermore, a guy who isn’t really in love tends to be more selfish about his preferences.

He’ll likely insist on the stuff he likes rather than asking what you want.

It could be small stuff like where to eat, which movie to watch, or if you prefer the window or aisle seat on the plane.

It could also be things on a larger scale, like deciding where the relationship’s headed.

Fickle (a.k.a. Fake) love doesn’t really do well with making room for compromise, and couples are likely to split over this.

 

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True Love Sign #6: Your guy has “tunnel vision”

 

You can tell a guy’s in love with you if he’s trying to imply that you’re “different” from other women.

He’ll make you feel special - it’s as if you’re the only one that exists in his world.

Men interested in a serious, committed relationship are looking for that one girl who stands above the rest.

And if he thinks you’re The One, he WILL drop some hints to let you know.

Chances are he’ll be indirect about it because men often have trouble expressing themselves emotionally.

Feelings aren’t as familiar territory to them as it is for women (although there are exceptions of course).

That’s why it’s a bit of a challenge for him to untangle something as complex as LOVE.

So he’ll try to let you know by saying something along the lines of “You’re not like other women” or “I’ve never met anyone like you.”

Someone who doesn’t feel as strongly for you won’t ever approach this topic.

That’s because he’s not as focused - or I might even say “obsessed” – with you.

 

True Love Sign #7: He’s always there for you  

 

Most women have a little trouble figuring this one out.

But if you pay attention to his actions, there may be clues that he’s not just in it for the physical intimacy.

If he’s constantly doing big AND small stuff for you, it’s his way of letting you know about this true feelings.

A lot of guys are more of doers than tellers when it comes to love.

Also, chances are it’s the real deal if he’s taking note of the small details about you and putting them to good use later on.

Maybe he knows how much you’re into badly made horror movies, for instance.

Then he’ll surprise you with a couple of tickets for a midnight screening of that cult classic you were telling him about the other week.

All this means your happiness is important to him…

…and any guy worth being with doesn’t feel 100% like a man if he’s not doing enough to take care of you.

A guy who doesn’t care, won’t bother remembering those vital pieces of information. And he won’t lift a finger to make you happy unless it benefits him in some way.

True Love Sign #8: He’s part of your life – and not just the fun parts

Another way to tell he’s in love with you if he’s going out of his way to be part of your world.

You might notice him trying to find out what you love doing, then tag along even though he’s not into it himself.

He’ll also be more than happy to meet the other people in your life because he wants to know you better.

Being with your friends and seeing you in action helps him understand what makes you tick.

A guy who’s only interested in doing the deed won’t be interested at all in seeing this other side of you.

It doesn’t serve him in any way, and he doesn’t need to take the relationship past sleeping with you.

Fake love crumbles when things get tough. He won’t muster the energy to get to know your passions and interests, and doesn’t care about the people important to you.

Doing this takes time and effort. Whether or not he goes through this trouble is the real yardstick of his feelings for you.

If he’s willing to make sacrifices that he could have very well avoided…

…and he doesn’t stop trying even when things aren’t always great between you…

…then you’d better hold on to him tight.

This points to the fact that he’s tenacious in the face of adversity, which is more than I can say for the Wham-Bam-Thank-You-Ma’am kind of guys out there.

Whether you’ve just been seeing a guy, or you’ve known him for a long time, it’s never a good sign if it just seems like he’s phoning it in.

Maybe he used to show the signs that he’s got a solid commitment to you, but now you’re not so sure about your future with him.

It’s often hard to pinpoint exactly why men pull away all of a sudden.

But you don’t have to panic if your relationship’s going through this phase. There is a way to overcome the wall that men put up when they don’t feel that fire anymore.

What you need to do is understand how men think and get a good grasp of what makes them leave. 

This video explains how to get around the problem of his emotional unavailability, and to make sure he doesn’t ever think of leaving. 

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