The Art of Engagement

 The Art of Engagement

Mastering the Art of Seduction and Meaningful Conversation

Introduction 

Are you looking to up your dating game and learn how to attract the right kind of women? Interested in mastering the art of seduction and learning how to engage dates in meaningful conversation while leaving a positive impression?

Whether you have a crush on someone or you’re just venturing into the world of dating, there are proven ways to maximize your chances at finding love. 

This special report is dedicated to just that: helping you avoid dates that crash and burn so you can find that special someone who is meant for you.

So without further delay, let’s get started!

The Art of Engagement 

It’s easy to get excited when meeting someone we see as a potential partner and wanting to spill everything.

So we end up oversharing… and then what happens?

She ends up sitting there listening to you talking incessantly about yourself, all the while you believe you’re simply lowering your guard and doing your best to engage, she’s either bored, annoyed or both.

We’ve all done it so don’t feel bad if you identify with this scenario.  Sometimes we catch it early enough to back-track and do damage control by reverting the conversation back to her so we can show her that we’re truly interested. 

Other times, we fail to recognize how we’re dominating the conversation and the date ends with little chance of ever hearing from her again. It’s like a job interview. Blow it and it’s over.

Learning to communicate takes work.  It’s not something we’re all naturally gifted with.  Sure, we know how to ask all the right questions and we certainly know how to talk about ourselves but a deep conversation that leaves both people feeling satisfied isn’t always as easy as we may think.

The key is to listen just as much as we share.

When engaging in a conversation, it’s important to remember that it’s a two-way street. Both parties should be equally invested in getting to know each other and should put in an equal amount of effort. It’s not just about one person doing all the talking or all the listening. A great conversation is a give-and-take exchange where both people are truly interested in getting to know each other. It’s never one-sided.

You want to share the spotlight so you can be sure she feels that you’re genuinely interested in everything she has to say, rather than throwing out a round of rapid-fire questions only because you think you’re expected to do so.

Because nothing turns a woman off more than a disengaged man who is wrapped up in conversational narcissism.

Leaving a positive impression where she thinks of you long after the date ends comes down to being authentic and charming.  And believe me, any man can learn these skills.

Here are a few tips that will help you master the art of conversation and leave her wanting more:

Avoid Boring, Stock Questions

Asking “What do you do for fun?” isn’t just uncreative but it’s flat out boring.  Those kinds of questions won’t leave her captivated or even remotely engaged. They lack thought and quite simply, they feel scripted.

Sure, you can use these traditional questions as a starting point, but they need to be designed so they lead to more in-depth, engaging questions.  The initial stock question should give you the chance to press further so that follow-up questions are more thought provoking.  

Just remember, you never want to feel as though you’re interrogating her.  Share as much as she is.  Match her pace and comfort level.  And tailor the conversation to her rather than making the mistake of following a one-strategy-fits-all approach. 

Example:  A standard question might be “Where did you grow up?”, and then a far more thought-provoking follow up question could be, “Does that place still feel like home to you?” or “What was your favorite thing about living there?”

Lead with a Compliment
If you want to make a good impression on your date, leading with a compliment is not lame or cheesy. A genuine compliment, rooted in truth, can make her feel good about herself and help her lower her guard and feel comfortable. It’s important to avoid boring, stock questions like “What do you do for fun?” and instead ask more thought-provoking questions that lead to more in-depth conversations. You should also listen as much as you share and avoid dominating the conversation. Remember that a great conversation is about both of you putting in an equal effort. It’s a give-and-take exchange where each person is truly invested in getting to know one another. Take your time and think before you speak so that you can give her a genuine answer to her questions that you won’t later regret .

Obviously avoid anything sexual.  You want to compliment her in a way that doesn’t sexualize her in any way, especially if it’s your first date.  Sexy, flirty compliments will come later.  For now, start by showing her you’re paying attention by complimenting her in a way that not only disarms her but leaves her wanting more.

Come Armed & Ready
Before your next date, think about the type of questions you could ask her.  Brainstorm stories you can share and think about the types of topics she is likely interested in.  Even if you don’t know much about her, there are tried & true topics that will peak nearly everyone’s interest. 

Just avoid the obvious triggers:  income, sex, politics and religion.

Go Deep
It’s true that we often engage in surface-level conversations that barely scratch the surface of anything deeply fulfilling. While it’s easy to ask someone how they like their job, it’s one of those stock questions you want to avoid. Instead, try asking what their greatest challenges are in their career or what they feel will change in their chosen profession. This can lead to a more in-depth and engaging conversation that allows both parties to learn more about each other.

Dig deeper but do so carefully. Don’t pry if you get the impression that she’s not comfortable talking in great depth about certain topics.  

At the same time, by engaging her in conversation that goes beyond the formalities of casual banter, you’re demonstrating a real interest in getting to know who she really is and what makes her tick.  

Take Your Time
Well thought out responses and questions will go the distance so slow things down and think before you speak.  

Most foot-in-mouth moments happen because we’re too busy responding without being thoughtful. You can easily avoid this by pausing briefly so you can collect your thoughts and give her a genuine answer to her questions that you won’t later regret.

How to Avoid the Friend Zone

Do nice guys really finish last?

There’s one place that no man wants to find themselves in and that’s the dreaded friend zone. 

When you invest time and energy into getting to know someone, it’s natural to hope that the relationship will progress beyond friendship. However, sometimes the other person may not feel the same way. According to a source, the friend zone is a place where one person sees the other as a good friend rather than a potential romantic partner. To avoid being friend-zoned, it’s important to communicate your intentions clearly and avoid oversharing. Instead of asking boring questions, try to ask thought-provoking questions that lead to deeper conversations. It’s also important to listen actively and avoid dominating the conversation. If you’re already in the friend zone, it’s not impossible to get out of it. Some tips include being direct and asking her out on a date, avoiding hanging out and instead going on dates, and flirting with her in a way that doesn’t sexualize her. Remember that it’s important to be authentic and charming, and to make her feel special.

If you’ve ever experienced this before then you know how hard it can be to change gears and get back into the romantic partner category once she sees you as a buddy.

So, obviously, you need to arm yourself with the tools needed to ensure you never get placed into the friend zone.

Here’s how to get started:

Stop Hanging Out and Start Dating

The truth is, whether you end up in the friend zone or not isn’t always within your control, however there is one thing you can do to set the stage so that your chances of that happening are seriously minimized.

It requires that you stop “hanging out” with the women you’re interested in and you actually start dating them.

Dating involves two people with potential love interest. You are in a temporarily committed relationship that involves getting to know each other to determine whether you’re romantically compatible.

But there’s a fine line between dating and just hanging out and you need to be very careful not to fall into the wrong category, otherwise you’ll likely find yourself in the friend zone. And friend zone is nothing short of a lack of sexual interest.

Dating = Pathway to finding romance.
Hanging out = Pathway to becoming friends.

This means every date must have a purpose. For example, you’re not just taking her to a hockey game because you both share a mutual interest in watching the sport.  

Sure, the shared interest is great, but it should be the foundation of the date (the setting), not the purpose (to find love).

The purpose of a date is to spend time together as a potential couple, to see how you both interact and engage with one another, and how you feel spending a few hours in different settings and situations. It’s about testing the waters of romance. The key to avoiding the friend zone is to stop “hanging out” with the women you’re interested in and start dating them. Dating involves two people with potential love interest. You are in a temporarily committed relationship that involves getting to know each other to determine whether you’re romantically compatible. It’s important to avoid boring, stock questions and lead with a compliment. You want to compliment her in a way that doesn’t sexualize her in any way, especially if it’s your first date. Sexy, flirty compliments will come later. For now, start by showing her you’re paying attention by complimenting her in a way that not only disarms her but leaves her wanting more. Come armed and ready with questions and stories you can share, and think about the types of topics she is likely interested in. Dig deeper but do so carefully. Don’t pry if you get the impression that she’s not comfortable talking in great depth about certain topics. Take your time and think before you speak .

So, during that date to the hockey game, consider the different ways you can set the tone so that she knows you are interested in her as more than friends.  

Be romantic, be sweet, and above all, be genuine and nurturing.  Engage in conversation that goes beyond surface chatter (read the previous chapter if you need help with that), and always stay focused on the real purpose of the date.  

Here are a few tips to keep yourself out of the friend zone:

Be Playful and Flirty
Don’t be afraid to flirt with her.  This banter stage of dating is important because it clarifies your intentions and tells her that you are interested in her, well beyond just friends.  

Keep it light, joking and playful.

Don’t be Subtle
Don’t play hard to get or hold back when feeling the attraction.  Men who find themselves in the friend zone are often there because they didn’t make their interest known and instead were subtle flirters.

If you’re worried about coming off too strong, think about the alternative: that you make her feel you just aren’t interested enough.  If you need to turn it down, she’ll let you know.

Build Sexual Tension
As just mentioned, flirting is important because it shows interest in a sexual way, but you want to do your best to work on building sexual tension as well. 

You can do this through playful, lingering touching such as placing her hand on her shoulder, or her lower back when guiding her through the crowd. 

Women love the possessive touch of a man they’re interested in because it makes them feel special and desired.

Don’t Talk Yourself Down

Guys who end up in the friend zone are notorious for cutting themselves down to lighten conversations, or to simply come off as humble.  

The truth is, men who constantly self-deprecate aren’t sexy.  Sure, you might get a laugh or two and think that you’re being endearing, but when it comes to relationships, you want her thinking of you sexually, not as a stand-up comedian who highlights all the reasons she shouldn’t be attracted to you.

Intense Goodbyes
If the date ends on a high note, let her know that you’re hesitant to end it even though you need to.  Leave her wanting more and always end the date while the excitement and energy is at an all-time high. 

It’ll take some experience to know when the timing is right, so keep a pulse on how the conversation is flowing and whether things are moving along or it’s a good time to end the date. 

 

 

Hot Date Ideas

The perfect date begins with the perfect setting.  Get this wrong and you’ve made things so much harder on yourself.

When it comes to choosing the right setting, there are a few things to keep in mind, including:

A Setting that Promotes Intimate Conversations
This means you obviously want to avoid rowdy bars with loud music that makes it impossible to hear one another. Instead, choose places that nurture conversation and allow you to both relax and get to know one another.

A Setting That’s Affordable
Whether you can afford it or not isn’t the point.  Bringing her to expensive restaurants may send a signal of high expectations and create a tense and awkward interaction. Instead, choose casual places that set a comfortable tone, free of strings attached.

A Setting That’s Interesting
Go off the beaten path and do something fun and interesting.  Rather than the cliché walk on the beach, consider going hiking, ice skating or kayaking.  

Not only will you show her you’re putting thought into the date but you’ll build memories and have stories to share.

Okay, so we know the top 3 things to consider when choosing the right setting for a date.  Need a few ideas?  Here’s our top 3 hot date spots:

Museum
It’s not only an interesting way to spend some time together but there will be no shortage of topics to discuss as you move through different areas of the museum and explore together. It’s also extremely affordable and allows you to spend as much (or as little) time together as you want without pressure.

Picnic
This never goes out of style. A well-thought out picnic can set the stage for a memorable date. Plus, you can tailor the picnic based on whether it’s a first date, a third date or a tenth date!  

For example, keep things casual and light if it’s first date.  For a second date?  Pack a bottle of wine!  For a later date, consider adding more romance to the setting.

Coffee Shop
There’s no better place to have a real conversation, free from distractions, than a casual coffee shop.  There’s no pressure, they’re usually rather quiet and you can start off here and see where it goes.

The Art of Seduction

So, we’ve discussed the ways of staying clear from the friend zone and we’ve gone over the art of conversation. Now it’s time to think about another important part of every high-intensity romance:  mastering the art of seduction.

Seduction is all about the long game.  You’ll need to invest the time and energy into utilizing every skillset in your arsenal, including: humor, wit and charm.

It’s also about being attentive but not coming off as cheesy or desperate.  And sometimes, it’s about “faking it till you make it”, especially when it comes to conveying confidence.

You might not feel like you’re the best catch out there. You may question yourself at every turn or wonder why she’s into you.  You’ll need to learn to move beyond all self-doubt because one of the biggest romance-killers is insecurity.

Instead, you’ll want to work on charm and sophistication.  You’ll win her over easily when you present yourself as someone who is more than worthy: you’re absolutely irresistible.

Here’s how:

1: Dress the Part

A well-groomed man is attractive to women. Not only does it show her that you take care of yourself, but it also tells her that you put effort into looking your best for her.  

You want to dress smartly and learn what kind of clothing suits your frame.  Don’t choose anything too loud.  You want to highlight your masculinity while looking trendy.

2:  Slow & Steady Wins the Race

When it comes to the art of seduction, it’s all about taking your time with the woman of your dreams.  Go slow, be thoughtful and caring. A woman wants to feel protected and safe.  

Even the most independent women on earth wants to know that their man will take care of them so be aware of how she’s feeling and make sure she’s always comfortable.

3:  Give her your full attention

Confident men know that to play hard to get is a game left for amateurs.  Instead, shower her with attention so she feels respected and needed.  

Flirt with her, be playful and make her feel as though she’s the only woman in the world.  Never, ever pay another woman more attention on a date.  

The objective is to make her feel so special that all her own insecurities are tossed aside.

4: Be Romantic
Create the perfect date by choosing the right setting.  Go the extra mile. For example, if you are taking her out for dinner consider choosing an intimate table at a bistro and order a bottle of her favorite wine. 

Avoid the loud, bustling bar scene and instead focus on settings that allow you to get to know one another.

5: Be Attentive
You need to make sure you are truly listening to what she is willing to share with you. Ask questions, go beyond surface conversation (I know, I’ve mentioned this already but it’s incredibly important). 

Don’t come off too strong with personal questions until you’ve learned what she is comfortable sharing but at the same time, don’t be afraid to ask her things about herself that allow you to know what makes her tick.

6: Get Closer
Look for natural opportunities to get closer. Whether it’s the chance to sit closer to her at dinner, or to take her for a walk where you can hold her hand, you should always be on the lookout for the perfect chance to flirt and be playful.  

Final Words

Finding that special someone takes time and effort. You need to commit to the long-game and understand that real love takes hard work but it’ll certainly pay off in the end.

Don’t beat yourself up over failed dates.  The more you put yourself out there and the more experience you gain, the easier it will be to feel confident and comfortable on future dates. 

The truth is: practice makes perfect when it comes to the art of dating.

If you’re looking to up your dating game and learn how to attract the right kind of women, then don’t give up. Whether you’re new to the dating scene or not, you have everything it takes to become a charming, attractive and unforgettable date. Believe in yourself and that you are worthy because you are. Remember that the key to a great conversation is about both of you putting in an equal effort. It’s a give and take exchange where each person is truly invested in getting to know one another. It’s never one-sided. Avoid boring, stock questions and lead with a compliment. Go deep and take your time. Well thought out responses and questions will go the distance so slow things down and think before you speak.

The key to a great conversation is to pay attention to the signals she puts out, work towards engaging in deep conversations that lead to forming a strong connection and never be afraid to let her know how you feel. Avoid boring, stock questions and lead with a compliment. Go deep and take your time. Well thought out responses and questions will go the distance so slow things down and think before you speak.

You’ve got this, dude. Now go find the love of your life!

To your happiness,

Resources 

Here are links to a few resources that I believe will help you: 

Good Men Project:

>> https://goodmenproject.com/category/sex-relationships/ 

A blog dedicated to all things personal development and news-worthy.

Love Panky: 

>> https://www.lovepanky.com/ 

Website focusing on finding love and building ever-lasting bonds. 

The Modern Man: 

>> https://www.themodernman.com 

Essential dating advice for men.  

"3 Ways to Make a Man ADDICTED To You"

Do you want to keep your man’s eyes on you and only you? Would you love to make him absolutely addicted to you? If so, you’re in the right place.

As you may or may not already know, there are certain things women can do to hook men. The good news is that these have nothing to do with looks, but rather attitude.

Once you can get yourself in the right mindset, you’ll not only have his attention, but like a lovesick puppy dog, he won’t leave your side.

Here’s what you need to do.

Be mysterious.

Have you ever left a date feeling mentally drained, or like you knew everything there was to know about a man? If so, you probably had little interest in seeing him again.

The same rings true for men.

If you’re the kind of woman who takes over a conversation or shares everything from your childhood memories to your deepest secrets then he’s isn’t going to be compelled to call you.

Instead of spilling your heart out to him it’s important that you hold back some information, and keep him coming around for more.

Also note that this isn’t only for in-person conversations, but it applies to text messages, phone calls, online messaging, the works.

To find out how tricks to keep your man coming back for more, click here and watch this free video from relationship expert, Amy North.

Be positive.

More than just smiles, emotions in general are contagious. This means that if you’re the pessimistic or self-pitying type, those feelings are going to affect your date, too.

Even more importantly, men are attracted to happy, outgoing women. Just like you wouldn’t want to date someone who was always down, nor do men. That’s why it’s so important to be positive and try to find the good in everyday situations.

Once your man realizes that you’re the one to keep him smiling he’ll become hopelessly devoted to you.

Be hard to get.

Now this one has been disputed over the years, but believe me, it works.

Since men are hunters at heart, making him work for your love and attention will keep him chasing you. When this happens, he’ll become addicted to you.

To do so, it’s important that you’re not “too available.” This means that you don’t drop what you’re doing to see him, and you set certain standards for yourself when it comes to making plans with him.

For instance, if he calls and asks if you want to go for dinner that night, tell him that you’re busy and suggest rescheduling for a day or two later. Even if you have no plans for that night, keeping him on his toes to see you will get him hooked.

It’s also important that you’re not always the one to initiate contact with him. If you’re doing all the texting, messaging, phoning, etc., it’ll take away from his pursuit for you. Instead let him be the one to woo you.

For more tips on how to make him chase you, watch this video:

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"How to Make A Man Commit To You"

When it comes to getting a man to commit, it's important to know where to start.

Since you can't force a relationship, it's key that he feels a desire to be with you. In other words, he needs to believe that his life is greater with you in it.

That said, you can't push or pressure him to be with you. If you do, he'll only pull away.

To kickstart a commitment with your man, try these tips on for size.

Be decisive.

As much as guys like to be in control, they don't want to have to call the shots for you, too. Instead of counting on him to decide on your dinner plans or weigh in on your outfit options, do it yourself!

Men find indecisiveness draining, so if you want to keep him coming back for more it's crucial that you learn how to be independent and have options of your own.

Do the little things.

As manly as he may seem, he still likes to be taken care of. To show you guy that life's better with you in it be the one who goes the extra mile to make him smile.

While it's one thing to tell him that you appreciate him, as the old saying goes, "actions speak louder than words." Something as simple as surprising him with a nice home-cooked meal or a case of his favourite beer can do wonders for your relationship. For more ideas on how to make him commit click here and watch my video.
  

Keep living your own life.

It's tough not to get swept up in romance, but if you want to make you guy commit to you it's important that you have a life without him.

Sure, it may be great spending all of your free time with him, but if you push your life to the side for him he'll see how easily he has you.

On the other hand, if you make him work for your time by keeping busy with friends, family and other hobbies he'll not only want to see you more, but he'll even miss you when you're not around.

Be willing to try new things.

Whether it's a foreign cuisine or a kinky sex position, being open and willing to try new things with your man is important, especially when it comes to getting him to commit.

Since most men are adventurous at heart, keeping your relationship exciting and new will prevent him from feeling bored or looking elsewhere for love.

Be his rock.

When a man knows he can rely on you he'll feel a connection to you like no other. Thus, if you want him to commit to a relationship, you need to be the one he can count on.

To show him this it's important that you're a woman of your word. Meaning, if you say you're going to do something, do it. When he knows he can depend on you to follow through he'll feel secure with you.

It's also important that you have an open ear, and be the person he can talk to about anything and everything. When he does share his hopes and dreams with you encourage him to chase them. Never tell him that something is out of his reach, but rather be his biggest fan.

For more tips on how to make your man commit to you click the link below and watch my video:

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Wishing you love and happiness,
-Amy North

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The Devotion System contains advice on arguably every aspect of dating for women; from getting a guy’s number and sending the first text to how to bring up the ‘M word’ (yes, the dreaded marriage talk); from keeping things sexy after children to preventing infidelity long-term. This book has advice for every woman at any stage in her quest to find love.

Maybe it’s me, but there don’t seem to be many women in the dating advice business.... or at least, there aren't many that actually offer any new advice or techniques outside of what you can already find in Cosmo magazine. That’s one reason why I found The Devotion System so refreshing. Amy North is a woman’s woman– smart, insightful and straightforward, she tells it like it is, and she cares about her clients. That fact is clear from the very beginning.

The book is divided into 3 parts, and the first is devoted completely to the importance of self-love and letting go of hang-ups and unhealthy behaviors in order to successfully find a loving relationship that lasts. North goes into great depth about the problems previous “relationship hangovers” can cause– both to one’s present happiness and future relationships– and the advice she provides in this section alone is of major value. Reading advice from a woman concerned with empowering women and helping them get what they want is a great place to start.

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How to Communicate Effectively with Your Partner: 5 Tips for Better Relationship Communication

Communication is the key to any successful relationship, but it can be challenging to communicate effectively with your partner. You may have different communication styles, preferences, or expectations, which can lead to misunderstandings, conflicts, or resentment. However, you can improve your communication skills and strengthen your bond with your partner by following these five tips, along with some examples of how you can apply them in your daily life.

1. Listen actively. Active listening means paying attention to what your partner is saying, without interrupting, judging, or getting defensive. It also means showing interest, asking questions, and reflecting back what you heard. Active listening shows that you care about your partner’s thoughts and feelings, and that you are willing to understand their perspective. For example, if your partner tells you about their day at work, you can listen attentively, nod, ask follow-up questions, and summarize what they said. This will make your partner feel heard and appreciated.

2. Express yourself clearly. When you want to share something with your partner, whether it’s a feeling, a need, a request, or feedback, try to use clear and direct language. Avoid vague or ambiguous statements, such as “you know what I mean” or “whatever”. Also, avoid blaming or criticizing your partner, such as “you always do this” or “you never listen”. Instead, use “I” statements, such as “I feel hurt when you do this” or “I need you to listen to me”. This way, you can express yourself without making your partner feel attacked or defensive. For example, if you are upset with your partner for forgetting your anniversary, you can say “I feel sad and disappointed that you forgot our anniversary. It’s important for me to celebrate our relationship and I need you to remember these dates.” This will help your partner understand how you feel and what you expect from them.

3. Be respectful. Respect is essential for any healthy communication. Respect means treating your partner with kindness, courtesy, and dignity. It also means respecting their opinions, preferences, and boundaries. Even if you disagree with your partner, you can still respect their point of view and acknowledge their feelings. Respect also means avoiding name-calling, insults, sarcasm, or mockery, which can damage your relationship and hurt your partner. For example, if you have different political views from your partner, you can say “I respect your opinion and I appreciate that you have a different perspective. I don’t agree with you on this issue, but I still love you and I value our relationship.” This will show your partner that you respect them as a person and that you can agree to disagree without harming your relationship.

4. Be honest. Honesty is the foundation of trust in any relationship. Honesty means being truthful and sincere with your partner, without hiding or lying about anything. Honesty also means being faithful and loyal to your partner, without cheating or betraying them. Honesty helps you build a strong and lasting connection with your partner, based on mutual trust and respect. For example, if you have made a mistake or done something wrong, you can admit it to your partner and apologize sincerely. This will show your partner that you are honest and accountable for your actions and that you value their trust.

5. Be supportive. Support is another key element of communication. Support means being there for your partner when they need you, offering help, comfort, encouragement, or advice. Support also means celebrating your partner’s achievements and successes, and being happy for them. Support helps you create a positive and nurturing environment for your relationship, where you can both grow and thrive. For example, if your partner is going through a stressful situation or facing a challenge, you can offer them a hug, a listening ear, a word of encouragement, or a practical solution. This will show your partner that you are supportive and caring and that you want them to succeed.

By following these five tips, you can improve your communication skills and strengthen your bond with your partner. You can also avoid common communication pitfalls, such as misunderstanding, conflict, or resentment. Remember that communication is a two-way street, and that it requires effort, patience, and practice from both sides. However, the rewards are worth it, as communication is the key to any successful relationship.

"Are You Pushing Him Away? (How To Tell)"

"Are You Pushing Him Away? 

(How To Tell)"

So you met a man and everything was going great between the two of you. Or so you thought.

Then, quick as lightning, he was out the door.

When it comes to relationships, women and men have unique perspectives. From first date etiquette to when to sleep with their partner, the outlooks are diverse.

However, when a man pulls away from the woman he’s seeing it’s usually for a specific reason.

Here are three HUGE mistakes women make that push men away.

They’re clingy.

If there’s one thing that’ll send any man running it’s a clingy woman. Sure, it’s nice to be affectionate and show him that he’s on your mind, but when you make him your be and end all, he’ll start to feel smothered. When this happens he’ll try to regain his independence by pulling away.

What’s worse is when you make it known that you’re falling for him, too quickly. Since men are looking for fun in the beginning of a relationship, letting him know that you’re already planning your future together will scare him away. Instead of showing your emotions too soon, it’s crucial that you remain calm, cool and collected.

Remember, if a man senses that a woman wants more from him and the relationship than he’s prepared to give, he will pull away.

They’re insecure.

Studies have shown that 97% of women are unhappy with their bodies at least once a day.

However, when it comes to relationships showing your insecurities is never a good idea. Sure, it’s nice to be comfortable enough to talk about your gym routine or the healthy eating kick you’re on with your man, but if you’re asking him “Do these jeans make me look fat” or nagging anytime an attractive woman talks to him, then you’re digging your own relationship grave.

The problem is that once your insecurities start to show there’s no going back. Instead of pushing him away with your self-doubts show him your happy-go-lucky side and he’ll be hooked.

A good tip to follow is to pretend that every date with your man is a first because there’s no way you’d let him see this side of you then. For more ideas on how to boost your self confidence click here and watch this free video presentation from relationship expert Amy North.

  

They’re unhappy without him.

Just because you’re happy when you’re with him it doesn’t mean that he isn’t catching on to your negativity when he’s not in the room. In fact, if he knows that he’s your sole source of happiness then it’s likely to push him away.

The problem here is this type of situation makes him feel pressured to keep you content, and that’s a huge responsibility for anyone! Instead of relying on him to keep you smiling, make the most of your life. Do the things that you love. When you do, you’ll not only be making yourself happier, but it’ll improve the overall quality of your relationship too.

For a deeper insight on what pushes men away take a moment and watch this free video presentation.